The Best Sex Advice I Ever Received

If you’re looking to have a more satisfying sexual experience, you’ve come to the right place. The Cheat Sheet spoke with six leading sex experts and asked them to give us their best sex advice. They also gave us some insider information on how you can transform your sex life so that every encounter will leave you and your partner craving more.

Sex school is now in session. Read on and learn how to turn your bedroom into a playroom.

Slow down

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My No. 1 sex tip: There’s no rush. Sex isn’t just about achieving orgasm, it’s about the journey to get there. Slow down — way down — and savor it.

The best sex advice I ever received: Our biggest and most important sex organ is our brain. This is especially true the more mature we get.

How it changed the way I approach sex: Men in particular fetishize about size be it the size of their penis or the size of her breasts. The truth of the matter is that the only size that matters is the expansiveness of your openness about sex. Think big about what sexual activities you can enjoy.

My advice if you’re struggling to improve your sex life: Let go of the restrictive voice that plays in your head. Your mother, critical religions, and punitive social discourse have no place in your sex life. Be guided by your own values and above all else do no harm to others. Sex is about maximizing pleasure and celebrating life.

Dr. Paul Hokemeyer, J.D., licensed marriage and family therapist and senior clinical adviser to Caron Ocean Drive