The Real Reason Princess Diana Didn’t Wear One of the Queen’s Tiaras on Her Wedding Day

Contrary to royal family traditions, the tiara Princess Diana wore on her royal wedding day was not chosen by the queen. In fact, it didn’t even belong to the royal family.

Despite the queen gifting her a tiara on her wedding day, Diana chose to wear something entirely different. Find out the real reason she didn’t wear one of the queen’s tiaras on her wedding day (page 5) and why she preferred her wedding tiara over other crown jewels (page 6), ahead.

1. The queen wanted her to wear the Cambridge Lover’s Knot Tiara

The queen loaned her a stunning tiara, but she didn’t wear it. | STR/AFP/Getty Images

On her wedding day, the queen loaned Princess Diana the Cambridge Lover’s Knot Tiara as a wedding gift. However, the late princess decided against the queen’s wishes and opted for something that didn’t belong to the royal family.

Next: Luckily, there were plenty of other important occasions to wear the crown jewel.

2. Princess Diana’s favorite tiara

Princess Diana exhibit

Some of the most famous photos of her feature the tiara. | Stuart C. Wilson/Getty Images

Even though she didn’t wear the Cambridge Lover’s Knot Tiara on her wedding day, it was one of Diana’s favorites. The late princess wore the crown jewel to many official engagements, including state dinners and banquets.

Next: Where her wedding tiara actually came from.

3. She wore the Spencer Tiara instead

She was likely paying tribute to her family roots. | Getty Images

Instead of wearing the Cambridge Lover’s Knot Tiara, Princess Diana opted for a Spencer family heirloom on her wedding day.

Like crown jewels, the Spencer Tiara is made up of other pieces of jewelry. It has been in the family since the 18th century and been worn by countless Spencer women. There’s no telling why Princess Diana wore the heirloom instead of a crown jewel on her wedding day, but one might guess it has something to do with paying tribute to her aristocratic family roots and keeping in line with her family’s traditions.

Next: Many mistook the tiara for this.

4. It was worn so often, many thought it was a crown jewel

Lady Diana, Princess of Wales and Charles, Prince of Wales are seen during their wedding

She made the tiara famous. | Stringer/Getty Images

The royal wedding wasn’t the only time Diana was seen in the Spencer Tiara. In fact, the late princess wore it so often that many thought it was a crown jewel.

Next: The real reason Princess Diana wore the Spencer Tiara on her wedding day.

5. It was a popular wedding tiara for Spencer women

It had been worn by her family during countless weddings. | AFP/Getty Images

The real reason Princess Diana didn’t wear one of the queen’s tiaras on her wedding day? Family tradition. The Spencer Tiara has been worn by countless Spencer women — including, Diana’s sisters — on their wedding days.

Unlike many other Spencer women, Diana had a variety of tiara options for her big day. However, she stayed true to tradition and walked down the aisle in one of her family’s most prized possessions.

Next: This is why she preferred the Spencer Tiara over other crown jewels.

6. It was more comfortable than the Cambridge Lover’s Knot Tiara

Kate Middleton has also been seen in the Cambridge Lover’s Knot Tiara. | Dominic Lipinski/Getty Images

Diana didn’t wear the Spencer Tiara to spite the royal family — she wore it because it was the most comfortable option.

Despite her love for the Cambridge Lover’s Knot Tiara, it was uncomfortable and often gave the late princess headaches. The Spencer Tiara was much lighter and more comfortable, which is why she wore it so often.

Next: What happened to the tiara after Princess Diana’s death.

7. It has not been worn since Princess Diana’s death

The Lady Raine Spencer tiara, owned by stepmother to the late Diana, Princess of Wales

It’s now on display in museums. | Leon Neal/AFP/Getty Images

Although the Spencer Tiara has been shown to the public (via museum exhibitions), it has not been publicly worn since Princess Diana’s death in 1997.

Next: The real reason Kate Middleton and Meghan Markle won’t ever wear it.

8. Kate Middleton and Meghan Markle will most-likely never wear it

Kate Middleton, Duchess of Cambridge, wearing the Cartier 'halo' tiara on her wedding day

Kate gets her tiaras from the queen. | Carl De Souza/AFP/Getty Images

While Kate Middleton has been seen in the Cambridge Lover’s Knot Tiara, it is unlikely she will ever wear the Spencer Tiara — and the same goes for Meghan Markle.

Because the tiara is owned by the Spencer family, Kate and Meghan don’t have easy access to it and will most-likely never wear it (unless the Spencers decide to lend it to them). Plus, the queen has plenty of other crown jewels for them to choose from.

Read more: This Is the Tiara Meghan Markle Will Probably Wear on Her Royal Wedding Day

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