These Are Joanna Gaines’ Best Secrets for an Amazing Party
Joanna Gaines may no longer be greeting viewers on Fixer Upper, but rest assured that her design and style secrets will live on. Because legends never die. These tips for creating an amazing party transcend the barriers of specific holidays, birthday and dinner parties. Here are Joanna Gaines’ best secrets for any kind of party.
1. Set your date, time, and vibe
The obvious first step of any gathering is setting a date, a time, and most importantly — a vibe. The vibe is not the theme. It more revolves around the formality of the party. Should your guests dress up? Should they dress casually? Be sure you factor in the atmosphere and experience you’re wanting to conjure up for your guests. This will help steer your vision as the planning unfolds.
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2. Create your guest list
A lot of pressure surrounds guest lists. Whether it be for a wedding or a dinner party, picking and choosing which friends you want to invite can create a bit of anxiety. But grappling with the decision does not have to create discomfort. Instead, simply acknowledge that you only have a budget and space for a certain amount of loved ones, and that is that.
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3. Pick a theme and color scheme
Choosing the theme of your party is where the real fun comes into play. The theme should be seamlessly coupled with the vibe you’re hoping to cultivate. Gaines is a big fan of the “little herb-inspired ‘garden to table’ dinner party.” Once you choose a theme, choose an accent color that enhances all of the its elements. For Gaines’s garden-to-table dinner party, she chose a soft pink.
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4. Keep it intimate with real invitations
Since you are planning to pull out all of the stops, consider amping up your party game by sending out real, snail mail invitations. That means no Facebook event invitation, no group text message, and no Evite. Sending out real invitations will not only make your guests feel extra special, but it creates a more intimate feel. For Gaines’s garden-to-table dinner party, she used these invitations (which are free to download).
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5. Know the importance of a table setting
Gaines has a gift when it comes to table settings, and thankfully for all of us, she openly shares her success secrets. The essence of your dinner party comes to fruition with the table seeing. Furthermore, it is where all of your hard work and planning comes together. There is both a rhyme and reason for how you assemble your table setting though, so keep reading.
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6. “Bring the outside in”
Even if you aren’t springing for a farm to table theme, the table setting is where you want to focus on “bringing the outside in.” The natural elements of flowers and greenery add warmth and “an extra layer” to the setting. Additionally, Gaines recommends utilizing that chandelier above your table to weave in some additional greenery, using a little wire to secure the branches and stems.
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7. Make the table setting multi-dimensional
Beyond bringing the outside inside, the last thing your table setting needs is to fall flat. Gaines suggests adding texture and dimension with a few simple tricks. Using greenery and florals to run the length of your table will automatically add a natural, multi-dimensional feel. If you opt for a cloth runner, you’ll want to bring in dimension with different heights of candles and holders, along with varied flower stems or small plants.
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8. But avoid cluttering the table
Before you throw yourself into haphazardly filling your table with everything you can get your hands on, pump the brakes. There is a fine line between a well-orchestrated table setting and a cluttered table setting. Avoid the latter at all costs. If you find yourself feeling like the table has too much going on, it most likely does. Reign it in by keeping the setting cohesive and simple.
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9. Create the menu around foolproof recipes
You have been there. A Bon Appetit recipe catches your eye and suddenly you are planning a dinner party based on the idea of creating this new dish. Do yourself a favor and take Gaines’s advice. “When hosting, use recipes you know are fool-proof.” Trying a new recipe on top of making your house presentable for guests is cause for stress and even disaster.
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10. Don’t feel like you need to make everything from scratch
Yes, there is something to be said about attending a dinner party where every single course has been made from scratch. But let’s face it, that is just not a possibility or reality for everyone. For Gaines’s garden to table dinner party, she decided to forego making homemade baguettes for the appetizer course (because who has time for that?). Instead, she purchased baguettes from the grocery store, along with the accompanying dipping sauces.
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11. Create a special drink station
For a holiday party, Gaines likes to create a hot cocoa station equipped with all the fixings. The same rules apply for any time of year, whether it’s a lemonade, margarita, or sweet tea station. According to Gaines, a drink station is an “inexpensive detail will excite your guests as soon as they see it.”
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12. Party favors make a dinner party feel extra special
Brace yourself — for party favors. I know, it sounds like an overreaching and unnecessary piece of the party puzzle, but it really does make your guests feel extra special. Luckily, bidding your guests farewell with a favor in hand does not have to break your party budget. The key, according to Gaines, is to “tie in your party theme.” For her garden to table theme, she sent guests home with a jar of apple rosemary jam.
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13. Focus your energy
In the throws of planning and executing your party, it can be very easy to become stressed and lose sight of why you decided to ever the plan the party in the first place. The key to your sanity and your party’s success is just to relax. But Gaines says it best. “your guests will feel as comfortable as you feel calm, so enjoy these moments. Don’t get overwhelmed and remember perfection is not the goal.”
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14. Don’t overcommit yourself
The day of your party is not the day to complete every item on your month-long to-do list, absolutely not. Instead, the day of your party should be the day you assemble your table setting and prepare the meal. Tie up any loose ends like housekeeping and do as much prep as you can before the party day. This will alleviate that terrible feeling of overcommitment.
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15. Make sure the kids can handle your nicer glassware
Not all children are created equally (sorry). The age and behavior of the children should greatly influence whether or not you let them have their way with your fancy glassware. Gaines admits that she “wouldn’t suggest setting out your most expensive glassware for the kiddos,” but if they are capable, “it always makes them feel included and trusted.”