Things Your Waiter Doesn’t Want You To Know

You may have heard that the restaurant business has all sorts of things going on behind-the-curtain you aren’t aware of. But how much of that is affecting your dining experience? With help from Insider and Reader’s Digest, we take a look at 15 things your waiter doesn’t want you to know. (The tip on page 10 may haunt us for a while.)

1. If you feel like you’re overspending …

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… you actually are. Especially when it comes to wine. “The house pour Cab Sauv has a wholesale cost of $3/bottle, and you’re going to pay $8/glass,” user and restaurant consultant David Williamson tells Insider. And if you’re in an upscale urban setting, that glass may be even more expensive.

Next: Consider this next time you order …

2. Servers usually recommend dishes based on price

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“Servers are more likely to sell you more expensive items than best-tasting items, unless you dig for their personal favorites,” one Quora user tells Insider. Sure, your waiter wants you to have a good dining experience. But they ultimately want to be making money off that experience too.

Next: Next time you ask about the specials, remember …

3. The daily special is usually not fresh

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More than likely, the special is something the restaurant is trying to get rid of. “Especially watch out for the soup of the day,” one waiter tells Reader’s Digest. “If it contains fish or if it’s some kind of ‘gumbo,’ it’s probably the stuff they’re trying to get rid of. “

Next: On that same note …

4. Beware when you order fish

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“Don’t order fish on Sunday or Monday,” one waiter warns Reader’s Digest. “The fish deliveries are usually twice a week, so Tuesday through Friday are great days.” If you really want fish and are feeling bold, you can also ask the restaurant when their seafood gets delivered.

Next: But if you’re going to ask questions, remember …

5. You’re waiter can’t tell you certain things

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“If you ask me how many calories are in a particular dish, I’m not allowed to tell you even if I know,” a waiter tells Reader’s Digest. “I’m supposed to say, ‘All that information is available online.'” This can apply to other behind the scenes things your waiter has been instructed not to divulge to patrons.

Next: That being said …

6. Your waiter may not know the truth

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It’s possible your waiter doesn’t know the menu forward and backward, so be cautious if he or she tries to snow you. “If you want to know how well your server knows the menu, or whether to trust their opinion on the dishes, ask them about any particular dish,” one Quora user tells Insider. “If all they can say is a few ingredients of the dish, you know not to trust them.”

Next: Give your waiter a break …

7. Requests to alter dishes are the worst

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What you think is just a minor change is more time-consuming than you think, longtime restaurant worker Emily Carver tells Insider. “The restaurant preps as much as they can ahead of time and some things come pre-made, so there is no way of taking the jalapenos out of the queso.”

Next: You know what else is the worst?

8. Ordering hot tea is a real pain

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This seems like such a simple order. But as one waiter tells Reader’s Digest, this is way more of a tedious ordeal than restaurant patrons realize. “You’ve got to get a pot, boil the water, get the lemons, get the honey, bring a cup and spoon. It’s a lot of work for little reward.”

Next: Speaking of hot beverages …

9. Your coffee may be decaf …

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… depending on when you order it. “In most restaurants, after 8 p.m. or so, all the coffee is decaf because no one wants to clean two different coffeepots,” a server tells Reader’s Digest. Makes you rethink that after-dinner caffeine kick, doesn’t it?

Next: This is shocking …

10. Don’t ask for lemons in your water …

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… because they’re filthy. Servers told both Insider and Reader’s Digest the lemons used to garnish drinks or perk up your tea get touched by everyone — and sometimes they don’t even get a quick rinse before they’re cut and put into your drink.

Next: This really isn’t all that surprising …

11. The salad dressing probably isn’t homemade

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Even if the menu says their salad dressing is “homemade” it likely isn’t made completely from scratch. “Some places buy salad dressings in one-gallon jars, then add a few ingredients, like a blue cheese crumble or fresh herbs, and call it homemade on the menu,” one waiter tells Reader’s Digest.

Next: And another thing …

12. Some restaurants only carry one kind of milk

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Be careful if when it comes to ordering milk in a restaurant — they may not have the same variety your favorite coffee shop does. “Very few restaurants outside Starbucks carry whole milk, 2-percent milk, skim milk, and half-and-half; it’s just not practical,” one server explains to Reader’s Digest.

Next: Something to keep in mind …

13. Long waits aren’t always your waiter’s fault

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Waiters across the board plead for patrons to understand that a long wait for food is almost always on the kitchen, not on the server themselves. This goes double for food that needs to cook longer — which is, also, out of your server’s control.

Next: Besides …

14. If you’re nice to you waiter …

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… he or she is more likely to find a way to add perks to your dining experience, like adding drinks or desert on the house. “If you are nice to us, we will go out of our way to do nice things for you,”  one Quora user tells Insider.

15. Beware the brunch buffet

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Because according to Reader’s Digest, “99 times out of 100, the big pan of scrambled eggs is made from a powder.” And this supposedly holds true for even some of the fanciest brunch joints out there. Don’t say we didn’t warn you.

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