’90 Day Fiancé’ Alum Jesse Meester Claims Darcey Silva Used to Stalk Him

90 Day Fiancé couple Darcey Silva and Jesse Meester were a trainwreck of a relationship, to say the least. The couple didn’t pan out, but their relationship has remained a sore spot for Darcey Silva since. Since then, Silva has sought love once more on the franchise, this time with Tom Brooks — though that didn’t end up working out either. 

Since then, Meester has claimed that Silva’s behavior has been obsessive and that she continued to contact him frequently after their breakup. According to Meester, it got so bad that he hired a lawyer.

Jesse Meester hired a lawyer 

90 Day Fiancé star Darcey Silva is notoriously emotional and clingy. She claims it’s just that she wears her heart on her sleeve and lives her truth, but many fans feel it has more to do with her being a difficult person.

Meester knows about Silva’s clinginess firsthand. In fact, he says that once they broke up, she never stopped obsessing over him. One fan tweeted, “JesseMeester deserves some sort of international award for dealing with this chick for so long. Not even trying to be mean.”

Meester replied, “Thanks Claire — my award would be for her to stop stalking me and pretend I want anything to do with her. It’s so disturbing that my lawyer had to stop it. On a side note: I want to catch up on my favorites Michael and Angela when I get some time off from traveling.”

Darcey Silva’s ex-flame has even claimed he’s had to hire a lawyer, mentioning that he had to take legal action in order to get Silva to “stop it.”

Tom Brooks and Jesse Meester team up

Darcey Silva
Darcey Silva | TLC

Following Darcey Silva’s latest season of 90 Day Fiancé, she and her then-lover Tom Brooks wound up in a bad place. After their split, it seems as if Tom Brooks and Jesse Meester got together and compared notes about their relationship to Silva. 

Meester previously posted on his Instagram story, “Tom did reach out to me and I accepted his apology. We had a good yet shocking conversation and found out we were both manipulated and played at the same time.”

“Not surprising, but not less painful when you are trying to help and love someone when it’s really all a lie. She told him how bad I was and she told me how bad he was. Result: I thought he was a bad guy and he thought I was. Calls and messages right after me or him in AM. Right after each other. It was a pattern. Almost professional,” continued Meester.

Meester eventually concluded, “I moved on from this but I want to put a message out there of hope for anyone who went through something similar. Please, be mindful of red flags. Read them. Understand them. And ask questions before falling deeper and deeper and losing your rational. We both helped and tried. And it only backfired. Now we are helping each other and have coffee. Good guy. God, truth and real love always prevail. Love you all.”

Darcey Silva is coming back 

For fans who can’t get enough of Darcey Silva, don’t worry — she’s coming back to the TLC franchise. A trailer for the latest season of 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days shows Tom Brooks and Darcey Silva meeting up at a restaurant. 

Brooks goes in for a hug, and Silva says, “No, that’s okay. I don’t feel comfortable.”

Silva then tells the camera, “I don’t trust Tom. I feel like he’s hiding something.”

When the two sit down, Silva says to Brooks, “Isn’t there something you have to tell me?”