’90 Day Fiance’: Big Ed Says Babygirl Lisa Hamme Treated Usman Umar Like a ‘Slave’

Fans have been skeptical of Babygirl Lisa Hamme and Usman Umar’s relationship on 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days from the very beginning. Not only did they have a significant age difference between them, but Hamme was also prone to jealous tendencies, which really put a strain on their relationship. Throughout the season, the two argued and Hamme said some pretty harsh things. Now that some footage from the “Tell All” has leaked, we get to see how the rest of the cast felt about Hamme and Umar’s relationship.

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Usman Umar says he never loved Lisa

Hamme and Umar’s relationship didn’t make sense to a lot of fans. Umar was relatively young and attractive and a celebrity in Nigeria and Hamme was a much older woman from America who was constantly getting onto Umar about things that she didn’t like.

But recently, Umar shed a little more light on how he and Hamme decided to get married.

“I’m doing this to make Lisa happy,” he said in a recent interview of marrying Hamme. He said that he “didn’t know what would happen” when she finally came to Nigeria. “I just have to let her come and give her a trial.”

Umar said that when he realized she wasn’t the one for him, he tried to break up with Hamme but she threatened to hurt herself.

“That’s how it happened,” he said. “Because if I didn’t love her, Lisa said she’d kill herself.”

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How do other ’90 Day Fiance’ stars feel about the relationship?

In leaked footage of the “Tell All” special, Big Ed Brown slams Hamme for her treatment of Usman throughout the season.

“You have embarrassed America,” he said. “You treated him like a little goat. You treated him like a little f*cking goat.”

Hamme wasn’t having any of what Brown was saying and shouted back, “you’re the goat. You’re the f*cking goat. You’re the f*cking goat.”

Usman, on the other hand, thanked Brown for stepping in.

 “Lisa, is that the show,” Brown continued. “Is the internet the show. Where is your head? You’re delusional. You’re delusional. Delusional.”

Avery Warner also jumped in the conversation, telling Umar, “not all America women are like that.”

Brown agreed.

“Usman, she’s the exception to the rule,” he said. “There are so many more nicer woman that aren’t disrespectful. She treated you like a piece of sh*t, she treated you like a little slave and it made me sick. You made America sick, Lisa.”

Usman claims Lisa called him the N-word

In another segment of the “Tell All”, Uman asked the rest of the cast if Hamme’s behavior was normal.

“The point that I want to bring out is. Please, all the American ladies should tell me about this. Is that how America lady behave?” he asked.

Hamme then tried to stop Umar from saying whatever he wanted to say next.

“If you start this sh*t again,” she said. “Do not open that can of worms. Do not. Do not start. Let me tell you something. Listen, if you open a can of worms.”

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“Lisa, last week you called me ni—er which I know is totally inappropriate in America. You called me ni—er, I don’t even get angry about it because I am used to how you are behaving,” he said.

Though the two seemed to be on shaky grounds during the reunion, they claim to still be together.