’90 Day Fiancé’: Fans React to Kalani and Asuelu’s Discussion About What They Think Their Household Duties Should Be
On 90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After, Kalani Faagata and Asuelu Pulaa are trying to work on things after all the drama between them. After a heated visit to Washington to see Asuelu’s family, the couple decides to go to therapy to get some help.
This week, they do a homework assignment they were given by the therapist, in which they each have to write down what they think their household duties should be and what their partner’s duties should also be.
Kalani Faagata and Asuelu Pulaa talk about what they think their household duties should be
The couple decides to go out for dinner and drinks while they don’t have their kids for the evening. While at dinner, Kalani asks their server for pens and paper, and she tells Asuelu they are going to do their homework.
They each write both of their names on a separate piece of paper. Under each name, they write what they think their household duties should be. They take some time to write down their responses, and then they trade papers with each other.
Kalani reads off what Asuelu thinks should be his duties and chores, which are: “Clean the house in and out, look after the kids, do my own laundry, clean my dishes, do trash in and out.”
Next, Kalani reads what Asuelu thinks her duties should be. “Then for me, you have feed the babies, clean your mess, do trash properly, do laundry and dishes, and rest,” Kalani reads from the paper.
“So you’re going to do your own things, and I’m going to do me and the babies,” Kalani says to her husband as she laughs. Clearly, they aren’t on the same page. “Your list is things for you, and then on my list, it’s doing like laundry and dishes for me and the babies. That’s still me taking care of two more people, and then for you it’s just yourself,” Kalani continues.
Asuelu asks what Kalani wants him to do, and she says she needs him to watch their children. “OK. And you see me doing that right?” Asuelu asks her.
Asuelu goes over Kalani’s list, and starts checking off things on both sides. Watching the kids, washing dishes, and vacuuming are under both of their names. Asuelu insists he does those things.
“My list is saying basically everything that I do, I would like you to do too,” Kalani tries to explain. “That we can split everything in the house. Not you doing your things and me doing my stuff and the kids.”
Asuelu says he mows the lawn and cleans up the apples in the yard, but Kalani isn’t too concerned about the apples. “OK, you could leave all of those apples outside,” Kalani says. “I would not care. I would rather you help in the house, because apples being raked does nothing for my life.”
Kalani mentions that when it comes time to do the raking of the apples, they can do it together, and that they will also watch their kids together as well.
Fans react to Kalani and Asuelu’s discussion
Fans on Reddit recently weighed in on Kalani and Asuelu’s conversation at the restaurant. A fan posted an image of their television during Kalani and Asuelu’s discussion at dinner.
One fan had something to say about rotting apples. “Honestly, I thought it was pretty s***** that she was putting down his efforts to clean up their yard,” a fan wrote. “Don’t be that neighbor who doesn’t take care of their house and leaves rotting apples in their yard.”
A fan thinks Kalani has a point. “She had a point though…,” another fan mentioned.
Another fan mentioned the importance of taking care of dropped apples. “You don’t pick up the apples, you get rats. You want rats? Because that’s how you get rats,” they said.
A Reddit user points out that Kalani isn’t telling him not to take care of things like raking apples up. “Yeah, but that wasn’t her point at all. She wasn’t telling him not to do it…” a fan mentioned.
Other fans talk about the timing of the couple completing their therapy homework. “It also seemed like the worst time to do a couples therapy exercise. A busy restaurant with the TV crew. Totally the place for what could be a serious discussion…” they said.
“Was that the right time to do the therapy exercise? Meaning, drinking while doing something that in theory requires some reflecting time?” someone else asked.
Fans have a variety of opinions when it comes to Kalani and Asuelu’s conversation about what they think their household duties should be.