’90 Day Fiancé’: Geoffrey Paschel’s Response To a Fan Who Asked if Varya Malina Spent Thanksgiving With Him

Geoffrey Paschel and Varya Malina ended their time on 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days engaged. But the couple didn’t attend the season tell-all (Paschel was uninvited after fans started a petition to get him removed from the show after discovering he’d been arrested for domestic assault and Malina didn’t want to go without him). So fans don’t know if Paschel and Malina are still together. The reality stars can’t speak about their relationship (or lack thereof) yet due to their contracts. But that doesn’t keep fans from asking.

Varya Malina and Geoffrey Paschel
Varya Malina and Geoffrey Paschel | TLC

Geoffrey Paschel’s Instagram post about Thanksgiving

Since his time on 90 Day Fiancé, Paschel has taken to posting long musings to Instagram along with photos of himself (often shirtless) going about his life in Knoxville, Tennessee. On Thanksgiving, Nov. 26, the reality star posted his thoughts on the holiday.

“Growing up, I was taught, like MOST children are, that Thanksgiving came about in a peaceful way during a celebratory harvest feast,” he began. “I believe this indoctrination of beliefs came about as a way to cleanse our minds & hands of the transgressions rooted in our entitled past.

“Unfortunately, we tend to turn falsehoods into truths as we interpret events to merely make ourselves feel better. However, the history of our settlement is a past we shouldn’t forget, but instead learn from in efforts to improve ourselves for future generations. We shouldn’t perpetuate a cycle of misinformation & distorted realities during times when we can, instead, be laying a better foundation.”

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Paschel went on to write that he feels it’s important to “celebrate Thanksgiving” and make “memories w/our loved ones.”

“I don’t want the horrid practices of our past to be forgotten w/the passage of time, but we also should be sure to celebrate our families, our blessings, & our future endeavors,” he wrote. “There is a way we can do both. Not only should we be more thankful for the everyday, innocuous things in life, but maybe we can just DO more. If we all adopted a servant’s heart and attitude, this could lead to endless opportunities for all of us. I know it sounds easier said than done, but I promise, it FEELS so rewarding.”

Paschel also wrote that his “Native friends” are “on my mind today.”

“Much of that fateful past has bled into what has transpired in the very present,” he wrote. “I remain committed to never lose sight of that fact.”

’90 Day Fiancé’ fans ask Geoffrey Paschel where Varya Malina is

Until Paschel and Malina can come forward and talk about how their love story ended up, the reality stars will probably get asked about the other each and every time they post to Instagram.

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As per usual, it didn’t take long for fans to ask Geoffrey if Malina attended his Thanksgiving celebration.

“Wheres V??? Would be great if she got to be with yall during this time of thanks,” commented one fan on the post.

“She’s in Russia,” Paschel responded with two red hearts.

In addition to questions about Malina, Paschel also received several comments from fans wishing him a happy Thanksgiving.