’90 Day Fiancé’: Is Tom Brooks a Serial Womanizer? Brooks Spotted With Darcey Silva Lookalike in Milan

90 Day Fiancé couple Darcey Silva and Tom Brooks have had some ups and downs recently. It’s clear that Silva lives with her heart on her sleeve, but it seems as if Brooks isn’t used to the level of emotion. In fact, he might struggle with it himself. Brooks revealed that there’s a reason he might seem emotionally closed off. 

It’s also apparent that Brooks is accustomed to living the life of a bachelor. In fact, he had been seeing several women up until Darcey Silva showed up. Is Tom Brooks able to emotionally commit, or is he a serial womanizer? 

Tom Brooks has trouble opening up

Stacey Silva, Tee Ashira-Hobson, and Darcey Silva
Stacey Silva, Tee Ashira-Hobson, and Darcey Silva | Jesse Grant/WireImage

Darcey Silva and Tom Brooks started talking regularly around the time Silva and her previous 90 Day Fiancé romance ended their relationship. 

Silva told Newsweek, “He was there for me. He knew all about it. He was kinda my rock during that whole time … He’s older. He’s lived life. He’s a jet setter. He owns his own company. He’s very experienced in life and he elevates me. I never feel put down. It was something I had to explore because maybe he could be the one so I decided to do that journey again. I don’t regret it.”

While Darcey Silva may feel comfortable wearing her heart on her sleeve, it seems as if Tom Brooks does not. In fact, he was rather put off by Silva’s effusiveness when she came to visit him.

“It’s something I’m not used to. It’s something I don’t particularly find attractive. It’s supposed to be a first-date scenario; it’s supposed to be fun,” he said.

Brooks also made it clear to his sister that he’s not so sure about committing to something so serious right now, and that he even has trouble dealing with the idea of saying he loves Silva. This could be in part due to two failed engagements he’s had in the past. 

According to Brooks, both engagements were ended by the other party. “Maybe I can’t commit because of the way things were in the past,” said Brooks.  

Seeing women before Darcey Silva arrived

Darcey Silva
Darcey Silva | Dave Kotinsky/Getty Images

While Darcey Silva and Tom Brooks were enjoying each other’s company for the first time — or trying to — Silva decided she wanted more information. She asked Brooks where they stood in their relationship, telling him that she felt as if they’d been dating for four years. 

Brooks did not seem particularly happy with this assessment. Brooks felt this was their second date, and seemed unable to even confirm exclusivity with Silva. 

Brooks told the camera, “I’ve been seeing other women. But I told them I wouldn’t be seeing them anymore. I want to see where this goes with Darcey. I want to see if this love affair and romance, which it could be, could become something more of a long-term thing.”

Brooks essentially said that he’d been seeing other women up to a mere week before Darcey Silva’s arrival — something that upset her to hear about.

Spotted with a Darcey Silva lookalike

It seems as if Tom Brooks might have a type. Instagram account fraudedbytlc posted a picture of Tom Brooks at a fashion event in Milan, Italy, with a blonde on his arm. 

The account captioned the image, “… He was allegedly recently seen spotted at a cafe in Milan with this definitely-not-Darcey beauty and there was most definitely a**-grabbing involved. Allegedly, there is another girl whom Tom was cheating on with this girl.”

While the picture itself is self-evident, the claims regarding physical interactions and another girl are unverified. Brooks has claimed that the woman in the photo was merely his dancing partner, nothing more. 90 Day Fiancé fans don’t seem willing to buy it. 

One user wrote, “Isn’t that the one he was dancing with? He is gross and a lying player.”