90 Day Fiancé stars Jihoon Lee and Deavan Clegg have been catching mixed reviews from the show’s fans. Some fans love the couple. They’re enamored of Lee’s humorous approach to life, his obvious efforts to be a good father figure for his kids, and the couple’s love for each other.
Meanwhile, other fans are criticizing Clegg and Lee. They feel as if Lee is not prepared to be a father, and that he’s irresponsible with his money. Others harp on Clegg’s parenting skills, sometimes even resorting to saying nasty things about her daughter Drascilla.
Amid all of this drama, Jihoon Lee made a couple promises to Deavan Clegg — and failed to deliver.
Clegg gets flak for parenting
90 Day Fiancé fans have been very vocal about Deavan Clegg’s parenting habits. Clegg’s daughter, Drascilla, is very energetic. Early in the season viewers watched Drascilla run around on countertops. She even threw a bowl down from the cabinet.
They also noticed that Drascilla still uses a bottle, despite being three years old. And, in a revelation that confused Lee just as much as viewers, Deavan explained that Drascilla still sleeps with her in bed.
Fans have been quick to come down on Clegg and her parenting. One user wrote, “She is out of control that child. The Mom just lets her do whatever. I have never seen her discipline the child.”
Another added, “A bottle at 3 and sleeping in your bed are both so outrageous and unacceptable. That’s not okay. You have to teach your children appropriate age level things to move them along in life. You’re labeled a bad mother now. Plus having a baby with a stranger also shows your bad judgment. Leaving a good job for an immature man too…what is wrong in your head? It’s not cute. It’s disturbing.”
Jihoon quits his job, reveals money troubles
As their 90 Day Fiancé journey progressed, Deavan Clegg prepared for her eventual move to South Korea with Jihoon Lee. To that end she quit her job and sold her major belongings. Unfortunately, Lee threw her a curveball.
The two sat down in a park, and Lee made a confession. While Drascilla played in the park, Lee broke the news to Clegg — he’d quit his job. Lee told Clegg that he quit his job because it didn’t earn him enough money to support his new family.
Clegg was notably and reasonably confused. She told Lee that his choice made no sense, as instead of making enough money to get by, he was now making none. Lee also revealed that he’d racked up debt in his younger years, which he’s still struggling to pay down over time.
Obviously, the entire situation stressed Clegg out — she’s preparing to move countries and her baby-daddy doesn’t even have a job. Clegg asked Lee to find work and reasonable living space for them before their arrival.
Lee lets Clegg down
Unfortunately, Jihoon Lee was not able to live up to his promises. Not only did the 90 Day Fiancé star fail to find a job, but he also revealed that Deavan Clegg will have to live in a loft at his parents’ house. This is especially awkward because Lee’s parents have not been very supportive of his relationship with Clegg.
Additionally, Lee showed up to the airport an hour later than he was supposed to. It turns out that he went out to buy a car seat last minute — a car seat that Clegg had specifically told him he didn’t need to buy, as she had one prepared already.
Clegg must have been very frustrated to get off the plane after such a long flight, only to realize Lee was late and hadn’t fulfilled any of his promises.