’90 Day Fiancé’: Would Tim Malcolm Get Back Together With His Ex, Veronica?

90 Day Fiancé star Tim Malcolm seems to be a somewhat divisive presence on the show. The reality star has received a very mixed reception from fans. Some fans really appreciate Malcolm’s care for his own appearance, including his grooming and choice of clothes. 

Meanwhile, others have been put off by the same. That, combined with his slow pace when it comes to physical intimacy, as well as certain outmoded ways of thinking, have led certain fans and even Malcolm’s co-stars to question his sexuality. Some have even made shockingly offensive jokes about Malcolm being transgender. 

However, one thing that really turned some fans away was the affection Malcolm clearly still has for his ex-girlfriend, Veronica. Malcolm’s Columbian love, Jeniffer, felt similarly. Now, Malcolm is opening up about his relationship with Veronica. 

Attacked by 90 Day Fiancé alumni

During an episode of The Domenick Nati Show that aired last month, Dean Hashim perpetuated the rumors regarding Tim Malcolm’s gender identity. Hashim made several shockingly offensive comments about the situation. 

“They way [Tim] crossed his legs, man, it don’t look like he got a pair of balls between ’em. I don’t know man, I can’t even cross my legs like that man, I’m blessed, you know what I mean? I can’t cross my legs like that. He crosses his legs more feminine than she do,” Hashim said on the show.

The 90 Day Fiancé star then added, “Here’s what I’m thinking, cause look man, me and my brother was saying the other day, he was like, ‘Yo, I think that used to be a female that turned himself into a man. He trying to grow up here, you know. It ain’t ready, it ain’t fresh out the oven yet man. He can’t pull his pants down yet you know? I think what it is, when they get that sex change, they gotta give it time for that peter to grow, like a sprout.”

Hashim’s comments are frankly rather ignorant and offensive when it comes to the discussion around transgender folks, and how we should be treating them. One Youtube commenter summed it up with the comment, “Ignorant insecure and irrelevant.”

Tim Malcolm opens up about his sexuality 

During a recent interview with Entertainment Tonight, Malcolm discussed the rumors that have been floating around regarding his sexuality. 

“Jennifer’s not the only one that’s said that,” Malcolm said to Entertainment Tonight. “Let’s be honest. There’s a lot of people that have speculated that there’s all kinds of issues going on.” 

According to Malcolm, the real issue is that he’s just not as focused on sex as the other parts of his relationship. 

“I’m almost 40 years old. I want to be in love. I know sex is an important part of love, but it’s not everything like it used to be. My biggest goal was just building a foundation that I thought would be able to last because I don’t want to be divorced. I’ve waited this long to get married. I’ve never been married. I think that’s just strange that society just thinks if a man says no then he’s gay. If a woman says no, it’s fine. But it’s like the double standard that society has. I kind of laugh about it. I do have some feminine traits. The gay thing was kind of out of left field for me,” Malcolm told Entertainment Tonight.

Would he get back with Veronica?

Fans have been wondering if the 90 Day Fiancé star would be interested in getting back together with his ex, Veronica, since they’re on such good terms. 

Malcolm told Us Weekly, “A lot of people will comment that they hope Veronica and I get back together, and I always say the same thing — that ship has sailed!”

“Romantically we’re not a good fit, but we’re great friends and we are good parents to [daughter] Chloe. That’s as much as we can ask for,” Malcolm added.

Tim Malcolm concluded, “If we got back together, I would be very surprised. Probably as surprised as everyone else. We were together for almost nine years. We gave it a good solid effort.”