Crazy Things Actors Said About Being Directed by Their Spouses

It’s pretty common for actors to fall in love with their co-stars on set. But actors also fall in love with their directors while working on a project. Many actor and director relationships have become something more and even made it down the aisle after a project is done. Some spouses even reunite to work again after they’ve gotten married.

But this could work for better or worse for the project and relationship. Some couples got into weird fights while working together. Others revealed weird ways they tried to keep it professional on set.

So what are the crazy things people have said about working together? Here are 15 crazy things actors said about being directed by their spouses and longtime partners.

1. Kristen Bell said Dax Shepard wanted her to have less cleavage in CHIPS

Kristen Bell and Dax Shephard

Kristen Bell and Dax Shephard | Jason Merritt/Getty Images

Dax Shephard directed and starred in the movie adaptation of CHIPS. He also cast his wife, Kristen Bell, as a housewife that has a sexy scene coming out of a pool in a bathing suit. In preparation, the two disagreed about her appearance. Bell just had a baby, so she wanted to take advantage of the timing.

“When I came out with a chest that size, he said, ‘It looks great, but you need to zip the bathing suit up a little bit,'” she told E! News. “And I was like, ‘Honey, I get these one time. I want a lot of cleavage. I want this to look aggressive.’ … it was the one disagreement we had on set.”

Next: This actress revealed working with her husband doesn’t stop co-stars from hitting on her in front of him.

2. Leslie Mann said an actor once hit on her after doing a kissing scene directed by Judd Apatow

Leslie Mann and Judd Apatow

Leslie Mann and Judd Apatow | Dia Dipasupil/Getty Images

Leslie Mann often stars in her husband, Judd Apatow’s movies. But she is also usually someone else’s love interest. The two are probably used to this dynamic, but Mann shared that one time an actor took things too far.

Paul [Rudd] is like my brother so I don’t think Judd feels threatened at all by Paul,” she told the Telegraph. “But there was one actor — I’m not going to say his name — who I had a kissing scene with and afterward he asked me if I wanted a ride back but he didn’t ask Judd, even though Judd was standing right there. It was really weird.”

Next: This couple gets really formal on set this way.

3. Melissa McCarthy says Ben Falcone makes her call him ‘Mr. Falcone’ on set

Melissa McCarthy and Ben Falcone

Melissa McCarthy and Ben Falcone | Frederick M. Brown/Getty Images

It might be hard to be professional when working with your spouse, but this may be taking things too far.

He made me call him Mr. Falcone,” she told The New York Times about working on Tammy. “And I couldn’t look him in the eye.”

Next: This actress was weirdly given pointers on how to do this by her husband.

4. Luc Besson taught Milla Jovovich how to laugh for Fifth Element

Milla Jovovich in The Fifth Element

Milla Jovovich in The Fifth Element | Gaumont

The actress played Leelo in the sci-fi movie, which was also directed by a man who later became her husband. For the movie, she had to change a few things about herself, and Luc Besson gave her pointers as to how.

She is very different,” Jovovich told the Los Angeles Time of her character. “And for that, I literally had to leave myself at the door because I couldn’t bring any habits — to the point of saying, ‘Don’t breath before you laugh.’ Just one of those things. It’s the weirdest thing in the world, but Luc [Besson, director of Fifth Element] was like, ‘Don’t breathe when you laugh.'”

Next: This married couple argued over this aspect of their movie.

5. Milla Jovovich and Paul W.S. Anderson argued about whether to put their daughter in Resident Evil: The Final Chapter

Paul W.S. Anderson, Milla Jovovich, and their daughter

Paul W.S. Anderson, Milla Jovovich, and their daughter | Kevin Winter/Getty Images

The married couple has been working on the Resident Evil franchise for years. Now it has become a family affair with their daughter being in a movie, but they weren’t on the same page about this first.

“But when Paul [W.S. Anderson] said he wanted her to read for the Red Queen, we had an argument about it because I thought the part was too big and I didn’t want to burn her out,” Milla Jovovich told Independent. “I was nervous about it. But they were in cahoots, so she read for it and the producers loved her so she got the part.”

Next: This actress was more nervous to work with her husband than this actor.

6. Kate Winslet was more nervous to work with ex-husband Sam Mendes than Leonardo DiCaprio in Revolutionary Road

Kate Winslet and Sam Mendes

Kate Winslet and Sam Mendes | Jewel Samad/AFP/Getty Image

When asked if working with Leonardo DiCaprio again or her husband for the first time as a director was challenging or comforting, Kate Winslet had an interesting answer. “The comfort zone factor really kicked in between Leo and I, and I just think that’s because we know each other so well,” she told Indie London.

She then continued, “With Sam [Mendes], because I didn’t know what he was going to be like as a director … I sort of guessed and hoped that I’d have certain things revealed to me, but there was always the element of the unknown about him. But I did feel extremely understood.”

Next: This actress revealed her husband surprised the cast this way on set.

7. Bérénice Bejo said Michel Hazanavicius would surprisingly play music that wasn’t in The Artist on set

Jean Dujardin and Bérénice Bejo in The Artist

Jean Dujardin and Bérénice Bejo in The Artist | La Petite Reine

Michel Hazanavicius was tough on set asking for many takes from the actors. But he also did some fun things, like play music, while making the silent Best Picture winner.

He put music on set. He would surprise us and just play music that isn’t in the movie,” Bérénice Bejo told Collider. “I loved it. I felt like we had more freedom.”

Next: This movie was oddly this couple’s honeymoon.

8. Brad Pitt said filming By the Sea with Angelina Jolie was their honeymoon

Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie in By the Sea

Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie in By the Sea | Plan B Entertainment

The Hollywood couple got married in 2014 and then got to work on By the Sea. Angeline Jolie directed and co-starred in the movie with Brad Pitt.

“It was probably not the wisest way to spend a honeymoon. But then again, fighting to make something together … what better metaphor for marriage?” he joked with The Hollywood Reporter.

Next: This actress sweetly said this director was her favorite and eventually married him.

9. Annette Bening said Warren Beatty is her favorite director before they married

Annette Bening and Warren Beatty in Bugsy

Annette Bening and Warren Beatty in Bugsy | Mulholland Productions

Before the two wed, they did work together on movies, like Bugsy. Annette Bening said “Warren is my favorite director—the best director I ever worked with,” according to Vanity Fair.

Next: This actress revealed this director doesn’t use words to say what he wants.

10. Helena Bonham Carter said Tim Burton didn’t really use words when directing

Tim Burton and Helena Bonham Carter attend the Premiere of 'Frankenweenie'

Tim Burton and Helena Bonham Carter | Eamonn McCormack/Getty Images

The two didn’t ever officially tie the knot, but they were together for together for 13 years and have two children together. Over the years, they made many movies together, but Helena Bonham Carter revealed Tim Burton’s strategy isn’t exactly clear.

Tim barely gets a word out,” she told the Los Angeles Times. “He mimes. He sketches sentences in the air — you have no idea what he’s saying but you know what he wants.”

Next: This actress joked her husband wanted her because she turned down a role in his movie.

11. Frances McDormand said she first turned down a role offered to her by Joel Coen

Joel Coen and Frances McDormand

Joel Coen and Frances McDormand | Tiziana Fabi/AFP/Getty Images

Frances McDormand and Joel Coen are married and did the successful movie, Fargo, together. But the lead actress hasn’t always been thrilled to work with her husband. She previously turned down the role of Abby in Blood Simple. That’s why you hired me because I said no,” she joked in an interview.

She later said it was a revelation to her that she could work with her husband, “It was a revelation that I could have a lover who I could also work with and I wasn’t intimidated by the person,” she told the New York Times Magazine. “It was: Wow! Really! Oh, my God! I can actually love and live — not subvert anything, not apologize for anything, not hide anything.”

Next: This star joked she fell in love to help her cope making this adventure movie.

12. Kate Capshaw joked falling in love with Steven Spielberg in Indiana Jones and the Temple of Doom helped her cope

Steven Spielberg and Kate Capshaw

Steven Spielberg and Kate Capshaw | Mike Coppola/Getty Images

The actress fell in love with Steven Spielberg on the set of the action movie, which called for her to be around wild animals and snakes. When asked what helped her cope with making the movie, she joked, “Fall in love with the director,” according to The Indy Experience.

The two got married in 1991 and are still together.

Next: This actress said it was hard to take her husband seriously in his costume on set.

13. Christine Taylor said it was hard to take Ben Stiller seriously because of how he was dressed in Zoolander 2

Ben Stiller and Christine Taylor

Ben Stiller and Christine Taylor | Lucian Capellaro/Paramount Pictures via Getty Images

Ben Stiller stars as a ridiculous character in Zoolander 2, so it kind of undercut him being serious while directing.

“He knows what he wants and he’s very serious about it,” Christine Taylor told Rachel Ray. “But when he’s directing you in a wig and ridiculous hot pink shirt and like it’s very hard to take him seriously.”

Next: This actor said he unknowingly fell in love with his wife while making this movie.

14. Aaron Taylor-Johnson said he and Sam fell in love without knowing it while making Nowhere Boy

Sam and Aaron Taylor-Johnson

Sam and Aaron Taylor-Johnson | Mike Coppola/Getty Images

The actor fell in love with Sam Taylor-Johnson shortly after working together and announced their engagement at the premiere of their movie. He later revealed that the romance happened without them really knowing.

“While we were making the film, I think we were falling in love kind of without knowing it, which is why it’s so special,” he told Vulture.

Next: This actress joked about thinking of divorcing her husband while making this movie.

15. Helen Mirren joked she was ready to divide the property after working with Taylor Hackford on Love Ranch

Taylor Hackford and Dame Helen Mirren

Taylor Hackford and Dame Helen Mirren | Giuseppe Cacace/AFP/Getty Images

The actress said it wasn’t easy making the comedy, as her husband was very stressed while making it.

He’s tough, my husband, I have to say, and there were days when I was planning how we were going to divide the property [laughs.] But also, it was so fabulous for me to go home with him at night,” she told Collider.

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