‘Married at First Sight’: Karen Wonders if Miles Is Enough of an ‘Alpha Male’ For Her
Miles Williams was immediately into his expert-selected wife, Karen Landry, on Lifetime’s Married at First Sight season 11. But Karen, who’d accidentally caught a glimpse of her husband on social media before the wedding day, didn’t exactly reciprocate his feelings.
Throughout the season, Karen expressed doubts about Miles’ level of “masculine energy.” She was sometimes put off by her husband’s emotional nature and often wondered whether he could serve as the head of the household.
On the October 21 episode of Married at First Sight, Karen’s fears about the couple’s gender roles and expression cropped up yet again with Decision Day around the corner. She opened up to her friends about her doubts in a challenging heart-to-heart.
Karen’s friends suggested she needed an ‘alpha male presence’ in her life
Karen sat down with her friends on the most recent episode of Married at First Sight to discuss Decision Day, which was mere days away.
The 30-year-old admitted that she and Miles still hadn’t been intimate – not only in terms of sex, but also in terms of physical affection in general. She didn’t know if she would ever be able to be affectionate enough to meet his needs.
The Married at First Sight star explained that she initially felt her relationship with Miles had stalled because she wasn’t getting the “real him.” Instead, Karen often wondered if her husband was repressing his real feelings in order to act like “her Prince Charming.”
One of Karen’s friends admitted that she, too, had some concerns about Karen and Miles’ relationship. “You’re a strong, independent woman,” she said to Karen, adding that it was going to take an “alpha male presence” to match her dominant energy. And, frankly, she didn’t know if Miles had it in him.
The ‘Married at First Sight’ star wondered if Miles would be able to ‘put her in her place’
Miles’ wife agreed with her friend’s assessment, revealing that gender roles remained one of her major concerns.
Karen explained that she wanted to find a man she could “submit” to, and she simply didn’t know if Miles was that man. She subscribed in many ways to traditional gender roles, and Miles was an emotional, sensitive partner – which sometimes made her more uncomfortable than anything.
“Is he really going to be able to stand up and be that lead figure of the household and put me in my place sometimes?” the Married at First Sight star wondered aloud. “I need that.”
Miles had his own doubts about the relationship
As for Miles, he wasn’t sure about his relationship with Karen, either. The main issue for him was the total lack of physical intimacy, which he admitted could ultimately prove to be a “dealbreaker.” Karen didn’t ever initiate hugs or kisses with him, which began to wear him down over time.
Just two nights before Decision Day, Miles and Karen discussed their potential future together in bed. Each of them revealed the factors they wanted to consider while trying to make their choice.
Miles pointed out that he wanted to take into account the fact that they hadn’t had a “normal experience.” Due to the COVID-19 crisis and the stress of quarantine, they “hadn’t been able to build a foundation and a regular marriage.”
Karen agreed wholeheartedly, adding that, no matter what, she “just wanted to decide what was best for them, both individually and together.”
The Married at First Sight couple spent the night away from each other for one last day before they had to make their final decision. They ended things on an uncertain note, with the future of their marriage seemingly up in the air.