Prince William Asked How He’d React if One of His Children Was Gay: The One Thing That Worries Him

During a question and answer session this week, Prince William was asked what his reaction would be if one of his children came out as gay and he’s being applauded for his response. The question was posed during his visit to the Albert Kennedy Trust to learn about the LGBTQ+ youth homelessness issue.

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Prince William was asked how he’d react if one of their kids comes out

Prince William was asked the following question and he had a thoughtful answer: “If your child one day in the future said: ‘oh I’m gay, oh I’m lesbian’ whatever, how would you react?’”

The Duke of Sussex responded that it would be “absolutely fine by me” if any of his children came out as gay, but he did note some concerns he has.

He explained: “Do you know what, I’ve been giving that some thought recently because a couple of other parents said that to me as well. I think, you really don’t start thinking about that until you are a parent, and I think — obviously absolutely fine by me.”

He continued: “The one thing I’d be worried about is how they, particularly the roles my children fill, is how that is going to be interpreted and seen.”

This is a discussion Prince William and Kate Middleton have had

Prince William went on to explain that he and his wife, Kate Middleton, have actually discussed this topic.

He shared: “So Catherine and I have been doing a lot of talking about it to make sure they were prepared. I think communication is so important with everything, in order to help understand it you’ve got to talk a lot about stuff and make sure how to support each other and how to go through the process.”

He further shared: “It worries me, not because of them being gay, it worries me as to how everyone else will react and perceive it and then the pressure is then on them. I wish we lived in a world where it’s really normal and cool, but particularly for my family, and the position that we are in, that’s the bit I am nervous about. I fully support whatever decision they make, but it does worry me from a parent point of view.”

Prince William continued: “How many barriers, you know, hateful words, persecution, all that and discrimination that might come, that’s the bit that really troubles me. But that’s for all of us to try and help correct and make sure we can put that to the past and not come back to that sort of stuff.”

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Ahead of the annual #prideinlondon parade and in recognition of the 50th anniversary of the Stonewall uprising, The Duke of Cambridge visited Albert Kennedy Trust (akt) to learn about the issue of LGBTQ+ youth homelessness, and the positive change that akt are enacting through their unique prevention and early action approach. The Duke met people supported by akt, and spoke to staff about the services they provide including the ‘Purple Door’ safe house, LGBTQ+ ‘host’ (or carer) services, in-person and online mentoring programmes and a range of youth engagement activities. Among the people The Duke met was Faz, an akt Young Ambassador and trans Muslim man. Faz lost his parents when he was younger and was living with extended family, but had to leave home after they reacted badly to him coming out as trans. akt helped support Faz, and he was one of the first people to move into Purple Door. Swipe to see Faz speak about how akt helped him, and see more from The Duke’s visit. Almost one quarter of the 150,000 young people facing or experiencing homelessness identify as LGBTQ+, and 77 per cent of those cite rejection or abuse from their families as what has led them to being so. akt has provided over 250,000 nights off the street and supported over 50,000 LGBTQ+ young people at risk of or experiencing homelessness. Today The Duke officially opened akt’s new services centre in Hoxton, which will host drop-in sessions for young people and grow its youth engagement offering. The Stonewall uprising took place in New York on June 28, 1969, and is seen as the moment that sparked the modern LGBTQ+ movement around the world. Pride marches around the world will be recognising the anniversary, including Pride in London, where akt staff and supporters will be marching. @aktcharity #LGBTQ #Pride

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He earned praise for his answer

Prince William is earning praise for his answer, with Faz Bukhari, of east London, who experienced problems at home when he began to identify as transgender, shared with reporters: “I thought his answer was so good, to hear him talk about having fears about what people might think of his children and how they might take to them, if they were identified as LGBT. That he recognizes that and is aware there could be a backlash, he understands the issues and hopefully with his comments we can get more awareness across to more parents of the issues.”

On Twitter, many people weighed in with comments about Prince William’s remarks, including: “So proud of Prince William’s statement. True leadership from our @RoyalFamily #PrideMonth2019 #LoveIsGreat” and “Spot on response by Prince William to the question: ‘What if YOUR child is gay?’ ‪#LGBT.”