The Surprising Way Princess Diana ‘Baffled’ Queen Elizabeth
Princess Diana died in 1997 but her influence, and the power that she had with the public and the media, lives on. Fans are still obsessed with her unique personality and the tragic circumstances that surround her death.
But, more than anything, fans are enamored with the revolutionary way that Princess Diana changed the royal family. While a common misconception is that Princess Diana and Queen Elizabeth, her mother-in-law for many years, didn’t get along, some recent news stories have dived deep into their relationship, giving royal fans some insight into their complex, sometimes-troubled connection.
Princess Diana was very young when she joined the royal family
Princess Diana was only twenty-one when she married Prince Charles in an extravagant ceremony that the whole world watched. The shy young woman was immediately immersed in a world very different than the one that she had previously known.
Her relationship with Queen Elizabeth started off as a rather distant one, as the queen reportedly thought that Princess Diana would have a deeper understanding of what was expected of her. When Queen Elizabeth realized what a difficult time that the young woman was having, she likely became a lot more sympathetic to her situation.
Still, Princess Diana developed a reputation as a bit of a royal rule-breaker, especially when it came to parenting in the palace. Some sources state that when it came to Princess Diana’s parenting techniques, Queen Elizabeth was definitely not a fan.
Princess Diana loved to be a hands-on parent, and even though she did have a nanny, she preferred to do most things with her children herself. Reportedly, Queen Elizabeth stated that she didn’t understand why Princess Diana felt the need to be so hands-on, exclaiming that there were “millions of housemaids around.”
Queen Elizabeth was ‘baffled’ by Princess Diana
As time went on, Princess Diana and Queen Elizabeth likely settled into a rhythm that resembled that of many families. When it came to Princess Diana’s public presence, there was no doubt that people absolutely loved her, which helped to draw some positive attention to the royal family. A recent news report claims that, in fact, the queen appreciated Princess Diana’s uniqueness even if she was “baffled” by her on occasion.
There was frustration there as well, especially as Princess Diana’s relationship with Prince Charles got worse and worse. Reportedly, the queen very much wanted to help her depressed daughter-in-law but had no idea how. Some have claimed that Princess Diana had an emotional breakdown in front of Queen Elizabeth in the final days of her marriage to Prince Charles, and the queen was quite taken aback, not sure of what to do.
There was probably real love between Princess Diana and Queen Elizabeth
Ultimately, Prince Charles and Princess Diana divorced, and they went on to live separate lives. There was a significant amount of negative attention on the royal family in the days immediately preceding and following their divorce, as the media liked to portray Princess Diana as being in a sort of war with the royals. It is likely that Queen Elizabeth and Princess Diana didn’t speak much during this troubled time.
Princess Diana’s tragic death in 1997 reunited the family in grief, as they reflected on the loss of someone who had meant so much to the world. The queen — while she received criticism for the way she handled Princess Diana’s death publicly — ended up giving a touching speech about her former daughter-in-law, claiming that she “admired and respected her.”
It seems obvious that even though they had their ups and downs over the years, the queen really loved Princess Diana for the good work that she did and the great upbringing she provided for her two boys.