‘Vanderpump Rules’: Scheana Shay Says Not Being Invited To Lala Kent’s Gender Reveal Sent a Clear Message

Scheana Shay from Vanderpump Rules recently shared that being left off of Lala Kent’s gender reveal the guest list revealed more to her than the news that Kent is having a girl.

“I think that it states pretty clear where our friendship stands,” Shay said on her Scheananigans with Scheana Shay podcast. “Over the last few months, we haven’t really talked honestly.”

Lala Kent, Kristen Doute, Scheana Shay
Lala Kent, Kristen Doute, Scheana Shay | Isabella Vosmikova/Bravo/NBCU Photo Bank

Kent held an outdoor event where friends like Stassi Schroeder, Beau Clark, Kristen Doute, Katie Maloney-Schwartz, Tom Schwartz, Jax Taylor, and Brittany Cartwright were in attendance.

Shay wasn’t the only cast member not in attendance. Tom Sandoval and Ariana Madix were also noticeably missing. James Kennedy and girlfriend Raquel Leviss weren’t in attendance, but Kennedy shared photos from a vacation spot.

Scheana Shay says Lala Kent hasn’t been very supportive

Shay had a miscarriage and said Kent opted to hang with celebrities instead of coming over to check on her. “Brock [Davies] decides to go golfing and I’m, like, literally [in a] full panic attack,” she described. Shay said Kent previously told her she’d be on standby if she needed anything.

“I’m like, I don’t know anyone in Palm Springs and my mom was, like ‘Well, why don’t you call Lala?’” Shay recounted. “I was like, ‘You know what? Actually, yeah, like, this could be a turning point in our friendship. She’ll be here for me at my lowest of low and we’ll get back on track.’ She apologized [to me] at the reunion. I thought at the time that was very genuine.”

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But Shay said Kent agreed that Davies shouldn’t be golfing but at the same time wasn’t worried enough to come over to Shay’s house. “It was frustrating because she hears the terror and panic in my voice,” Shay recalled. “I’m literally, like, ‘He’s golfing!’ I was screaming at the top of my lungs. I was devastated. She was just like, ‘I don’t like that, I don’t like that.’ And I was like ‘Yeah I don’t like that either and I don’t like being alone so can you please come over?’ And she was just like, ‘Well, um I’m going to dinner.’”

Kent invited Shay to dinner

Shay was invited to dine with Kent and celebrities like Megan Fox and Machine Gun Kelly. But shared she was too upset to get it together to go to dinner. “She literally said to my mom, ‘If she needs anything at all, I will be there. I’m 5 minutes away in Palm Springs,’” Shay said. “I needed her and she wasn’t there because she had dinner with celebrities. Let’s be real.”

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Davies had a less confrontational opinion about the reveal party. “This is the thing I like about COVID,” he said. “You get to identify who you want to hang out with and who you don’t want to hang out with. There’s a priority list. That’s the best thing about pandemic, there’s a priority list. You go, ‘Okay, here’s our list of people who should come.’ And we just didn’t fall on that list.”