Who Did Nicole Kidman Date Before Keith Urban?

Although Nicole Kidman has enjoyed a long and happy relationship with country superstar Keith Urban for many years, she has not always had such a peaceful personal life.

Prior to her marriage to Urban, Kidman dated several Hollywood power players and was in one of the most high-profile marriages in history.

Nicole Kidman’s turbulent first marriage

Before Kidman became well known to American film audiences as the leggy redheaded actress with a mane of curly hair, she was a struggling performer in Australian cinema.

While she was still working hard to score her big break in America, she met actor Tom Cruise, who at the time of their first meeting in 1989, was a huge star. The pair hit it off quickly and were married the following year.

Their marriage was hugely popular with the American press, and there’s little doubt that her partnership with Cruise helped to further her movie career. They co-starred in several films together, including Days of Thunder, Far and Away, and Eyes Wide Shut

Kidman and Cruise adopted two children together, and it seemed as though all was quite well within their marriage. However, by 2001, they separated, citing irreconcilable differences.

Neither Kidman nor Cruise has ever spoken out publicly about their marriage, or what led to the eventual divorce, so speculation has run rampant. In a rare interview, Kidman admitted that her young age played a role in the couple growing apart. She claimed that she was heartbroken by the divorce and that she still loves Cruise, and honors their time together. 

Her partners after divorce

After splitting from Tom Cruise in 2001, Nicole Kidman wasted no time exploring the possibilities with several other boyfriends. She was reportedly involved with singer Robbie Williams and businessman Steve Bing before establishing a more serious relationship with Lenny Kravitz, Lisa Bonet’s ex-husband.

She and Kravitz dated from 2003 to 2004 and reportedly ended their fling on an amicable note. There were also some rumors that she was mildly interested in talk show host Jimmy Fallon, but a relationship never quite evolved. 

How long has Kidman been with Urban?

Of course, Kidman’s most famous romance after Tom Cruise is undoubtedly her current husband, Keith Urban. They met in 2005 at an event in Los Angeles, and apparently, the two experienced instant chemistry.

Kidman opened up in a January 2019 interview and gushed about the first time she knew Urban was the one, admitting that he showed up on her doorstep at 5 a.m. with a bouquet of flowers in honor of her 38th birthday. She knew then that they would end up getting married.

The loving couple didn’t wait long to seal the deal – they got married in June 2005, in their home country of Australia. Since then, it’s been nothing but sunshine and rainbows for the country crooner and the A-list actress. They welcomed two daughters, Sunday Rose, and Faith Margaret, and have supported each other through numerous obstacles, including Urban’s battle with alcohol addiction and the passing of Kidman’s father, with whom she shared a close relationship, in 2014. 

Nicole Kidman and Keith Urban are also consistently one of the most stunning couples on any red carpet that they attend. Although they prefer to live a life of privacy in their Nashville abode, Kidman and Urban pull out all the stops for Grammy night, when Urban shows up with his Hollywood star wife on his arm.

Urban also doesn’t hesitate to shout out his wife whenever he can – recently when asked whether he prefers Grace Kelly or Marilyn Monroe, he chose Kidman over both timeless icons. These two are truly relationship goals.