Why Didn’t Meghan Markle and Kate Middleton Become Best Friends?

When Meghan Markle married Prince Harry last year, people could not stop drawing comparisons between her and Kate Middleton, who married Prince William in 2011.

Since the two ladies are close in age and both commoners who married into the royal family, many were hoping that they would have a special bond with each other and even become best friends.

However, as we now know a year later, Meghan Markle and Kate Middleton did not become friends. In fact, if you believe what is often written in tabloid reports, they could actually despise each other. So what exactly is going on? Why did Meghan Markle and Kate Middleton end up not getting along as well as everybody had hoped they would?

Meghan Markle and Kate Middleton have different personalities and upbringings

Friendships develop over many things, not just age and marriage to brother princes. In this case, unfortunately, we have managed to see that Meghan Markle and Kate Middleton are quite different at heart.

Meghan Markle grew up in California in a multiracial middle class family with divorced parents. Although she attended private schools, her life was relatively average before she became an actress on a popular TV show. Because she used to work in the entertainment industry, Meghan Markle has a very bubbly, outgoing personality and understands how to utilize media attention.

Meanwhile, Kate Middleton came from a very wealthy family in England with parents who are successful business owners. Although she is not royal or noble by any means, she’s definitely had a more privileged life compared to Meghan Markle, having attended prestigious schools and rubbing elbows with all sorts of people from the upper class. But Kate Middleton is also noticeably more introverted and often tries to find ways to avoid the press whenever possible.

Meghan Markle and Kate Middleton have separate roles in the royal family

Since Meghan Markle and Kate Middleton married into the same family and both have gotten an insane amount of attention from the public, people might be quick to think that their lives are almost the same. However, in reality, they have been put in different roles with different responsibilities to attend to.

Meghan Markle married the “spare” prince, so she carries a lot less expectations on her shoulders. There is no plan for her husband and children to inherit the throne in the future, which means that they can actually lead more private lives and are allowed to break a few rules here and there.

Kate Middleton, on the other hand, is expected to abide by numerous rules that Meghan Markle can freely break. There’s a good chance that she will become queen in the future, so her actions are monitored closely and she isn’t given a lot of leeway. Kate Middleton must behave properly at all times and maintain an extremely good image for the royal family. 

Are Meghan Markle and Kate Middleton really feuding?

These differences have perhaps led some to believe that Meghan Markle and Kate Middleton are feuding because they just cannot get along. There were rumors that Meghan Markle made Kate Middleton cry before the royal wedding last year and also that Kate Middleton yelled at Meghan Markle when the latter talked to the former’s staff in a certain manner.

As juicy as these reports are, they have never been confirmed by anyone reliable. Most have come from supposed “sources” close to the family, which means that they easily could have been fabricated, so it’s best to not take them too seriously. While it’s unsurprising that Meghan Markle and Kate Middleton are not best friends, their feud might have simply been overblown and not as big of a deal as the tabloids have made it out to be.