3. Don’t worry, it will happen
Nothing just happens. It only happens if you work at it. Saying this sort of thing absolves anyone of any personal responsibility. If you want something to happen, you have to devote some time to the problem so that you can improve. It reminds me of Einstein’s quote, “Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.” If you change nothing, nothing will change.
Hunt Ethridge, certified dating coach