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Even this award-winning country singer is searching Pinterest for inspo ā€” not for birthday parties or home decor, though. Kelsea Ballerini wrote one song based on an undeniably honest Pinterest quote. Hereā€™s what we learned about ā€œStilettosā€ from The First Time.Ā 

ā€˜Stilettosā€™ by Kelsea Ballerini lyrics and meaning

Singer-songwriter Kelsea Ballerini performs on stage during CMT Artists of the Year 2016
Singer-songwriter Kelsea Ballerini performs on stage during CMT Artists of the Year 2016 | Rick Diamond/Getty Images for CMT

Ballerini wears her pain in the most fashion-foward way. In 2015, this country artist released ā€œStilettosā€ off The First Time. She co-wrote the track with Forest Glen Whitehead and Kevin Savigar, earning over 13 million Spotify plays since its debut.

The high heels are a kind of metaphor in this track, representing a strong female lead as she reacts to her breakup. The narrator says that she learned to be strong, covering her pain with something beautiful, like stilettos.Ā 

ā€œIā€™ll wear my pain like stilettos,ā€ she sings in the chorus. ā€œAs bad as it may hurt, no, youā€™ll never know Iā€™ll keep walking with my head up, putting on a show / And fronting like nothing is wrong I talk the talk like Iā€™m a tough girl / Cause there ainā€™t room for weakness in a rough world / That keeps saying you were never enough, girl.ā€Ā 

The narrator said they would rather hear the truth than a sugarcoated version. In an effort to make herself (and even her former partner) feel better, she would wear a mask and hide her hurt. Ballerini discussed her people-pleasing tendencies during an interview with Atwood Magazine.Ā 

ā€œIā€™m still getting my footing on what I really want to stand for,ā€ Ballerini noted, ā€œbut I think the way that you do that, especially as a chronic people pleaser, is you just kind of word vomit all the things that youā€™ve experienced in your life, and you find the things that youā€™re really passionate about standing up for, and then you just do your best to show up for those things.

Kelsea Ballerini found inspiration for ā€˜Stilettosā€™ on PinterestĀ 

Ballerini gets songwriting inspiration from several places. For ā€œStilettos,ā€ in particular, this artist noted Pinterestā€™s role in her real-life career.Ā 

ā€œI saw a quote on Pinterest that inspired that one,ā€ she told Axs.com (via Song Facts). However, the songwriter didnā€™t specify which quote inspired her, as the image-sharing social media platform is full of uplifting, insightful, and inspirational quotes.

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Does Kelsea Ballerini write her own songs?Ā 

Ballerini is the mastermind (or at least a co-writer) behind most of her original songs, including one of her most popular releases, ā€œI Quit Drinking.ā€ During an interview with AXS, Ballerini said that her initial songwriting approach wasnā€™t always comprehensive ā€” when it was time for her debut album, she threw 12 songs together.Ā 

ā€œThis time, every song that I wrote, I knew it had the chance to be on an album, so it was just a different perspective,ā€ the artist noted regarding 2018ā€™s Unapologetically. She was more involved in the production of her second collection, adding that it has ā€œmore heartā€ as a result.

In 2023, she released her six-song EP, Rolling Up the Welcome Mat. Now, music by Ballerini is available on most major streaming platforms.Ā