’90 Day Fiancé’: Ashley Martson’s Ex-Husband Jay Smith Spills Details About Pregnancy and His Love Life

Ashley Martson, a mom of two from Pennsylvania, and her much younger Jamaican ex-husband Jay Smith, had a tumultuous relationship, to say the least. Both on and off TLC’s 90 Day Fiancé, the pair struggled with Jay’s infidelity, constant breakups and reconciliations, and even some legal troubles. 

The couple officially split in the fall of 2019 after not one, but (at least) two different divorce filings. But even after all the drama, Jay recently told Us Weekly he’s not ready to give up on love. The 90 Day Fiancé star spilled the details about recent pregnancy rumors, his new girlfriend, and his career aspirations.

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Jay said he’s in a relationship but not expecting a child

After all the drama with Ashley, Jay recently cleaned up his social media (although he did recently start an OnlyFans account!). So it’s difficult to keep up with him on Instagram. 

Luckily, he recently opened up to Us Weekly exclusively about his personal life.  

The 22-year-old tattoo artist revealed he is in a relationship at the moment. And those recent pregnancy rumors, he said, were false as far as he knew. “Selena [Miller] is my girlfriend right now, but no one is pregnant,” he told Us Weekly. “She didn’t give no information to nobody that she was pregnant.”

He added, “No, nobody’s pregnant. Not that I know of.”

Jay’s relationship with Selena must be fairly new, as he was dating a woman named Kayla O’Brien back in Aug. 2019. 

The ‘90 Day Fiancé’ star also opened up about his career 

Jay is a successful tattoo artist but seems to want to branch out into other fields. One of the many reasons he doesn’t want to start a family right now, he told Us Weekly, is his burgeoning career. He hinted that we might even see him on the small screen again soon.

“I’ve got another big thing coming out right now, like a show and stuff, so that’s not what I want to have right now. So [having a baby] is something I would not do right now,” Jay said. “Just like a clothing line, a show and modeling. I can’t really say what show I’m doing.”

The 90 Day Fiancé star also said he’s hoping to move soon, as he doesn’t want to stay in his ex’s home state of Pennsylvania. It looks like he’ll stay in the U.S. for the time being.

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This is as raw and real as I can be. I’m fighting the tears just typing this. This year has been tough. This photo was taken accidentally the night of my birthday party in New York City. We had just split and I filed for divorce for the second time. The tabloids attacked me at my events all week about my failed marriage. He showed up to my party, unannounced. We were civil and had an appearance the next day so it was okay. He said Happy Birthday. He had drinks and hung out with his friends. As I walked out the door and got in the Uber with @ritzy_rina I just lost it. The tears came pouring out. It was the moment I knew… I knew I failed. I failed my marriage, myself, my children. My heart was broken into a million pieces and the walls completely caved in around me. Everything I kept bottled in poured out of my eyes in the back of this Uber. My best friend, who is a true best friend, didn’t even ask. She just began crying as well. She saw me hurt for so long and try and act like I was okay even though she knew I wasn’t okay. She felt my pain and we both just cried. The whole ride to our hotel. I never felt a hurt like this in my life. Ever. I’m not blaming all this on him. That’s not why I’m posting this. I just want men and women to both know it’s okay to not be okay. It’s okay to cry it out. It’s okay to not be strong all the time. It’s okay to fail. Whats not okay is to let it destroy you. You can, and you will, get back up and begin to pick up the pieces. To this day I still hurt. I still love him. I just have come to terms with the fact it’s over and I’m gonna be okay. So all of you who are struggling please know these feelings are temporary and you will get back to yourself. Time truly does heal wounds. There is no more Ashley and Jay. I’m leaving this post with the final time I speak on us or our marriage. It’s about to be a new year and I’m ready to start a new chapter and not look back. Thank you for all your support through this hard time and a special thank you to @xdestiny_lynnx @ritzy_rina @dolceaestheticsny and @michellee_727 you guys are amazing and I can’t imagine fighting this battle without you. #90dayfiance #tlc #happilyeverafter

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The Pennsylvania mom of two recently admitted she ‘still loves Jay’

Amid all the drama, Ashley recently admitted she still has some love left for her ex-husband. Just before the New Year, she posted a crying selfie (supposedly “accidentally”) that detailed the last night she despaired over her broken marriage.

The 33-year-old 90 Day Fiancé star admitted in the emotional Instagram post, “To this day I still hurt. I still love him. I just have come to terms with the fact it’s over and I’m gonna be okay. So all of you who are struggling please know these feelings are temporary and you will get back to yourself. Time truly does heal wounds.”

She seemed to close the door on that chapter in her life, writing, “There is no more Ashley and Jay. I’m leaving this post with the final time I speak on us or our marriage.”