’90 Day Fiancé’: Babygirl Lisa Hamme Calls Usman Umar’s Suicide Claims a ‘Big F*ck Up’

90 Day Fiancé star Babygirl Lisa Hamme is lashing out at Usman Umar. It seems as though the two have recently reached a breaking point, and Hamme is now claiming that Umar used her and TLC alike in a romance scam. Umar had previously claimed Hamme threatened suicide over their relationship, and now Hamme is saying that in making that claim, Umar made a “big f*ck up.” 

Babygirl Lisa Hamme says Usman Umar scammed her 

Babygirl Lisa Hamme took to Instagram live to dish on her situation with Usman Umar. During a chat with her promoter, Hamme revealed that she feels scammed by her 90 Day Fiancé husband. 

Hamme’s claims follow the recent revelation that she has directed racial epithets at Umar in their private time, as well as screenshots of Hamme using the same epithet on social media. 

Hamme claimed, “To everyone listening here, it’s very apparent that I am a victim of a romance scam. My husband has used TLC, his family, his friends, people around the world. And I’m going to apologize to everyone here. I did not know that my husband, Sojaboy, was that desperate to become a singer that he would use me and his family and friends. And TLC, the show.”

She went on to add, “He blocked me on all platforms so I don’t know what’s going on and that’s the sad part becuase everyone comes and tells me what’s going on. … I cannot believe Sojaboy is gonna try and come off as a saint. This man had nothing when I met him, nothing. … He used me and my daughter, telling us that he loved us, that we were the only people that mattered in his life, that he would love me until the day I die.”

Usman Umar claimed she threatened suicide

Previously, Usman Umar had claimed that Babygirl Lisa Hamme threatened suicide over their 90 Day Fiancé relationship. Umar made his claim during an episode of the podcast Lip Service with Angela Lee.

Umar told Lee, “So, after some time, I was like, this cannot continue. We spent about one year with you telling me that you love me, you love me, and I was saying that I love you, I love you. But deeply in me I know it’s not love. I don’t love you for real, honestly. But I do know that to make you happy, I do that to, you know, to make you happy – to calm you down.”

He added, “So Lisa starts, you know, trying to hang herself, commit suicide. I was like, no, no. My father is an Imam and we were taught in the way that is good for you to please somebody. It’s better I tolerate her, you know problems – all the headaches she has given me – and make her leave, than for me to say I didn’t love her, then go and kill herself. So, I was like, it’s better for me to tolerate that, you know…than for me to say I don’t love you, then she go and kill herself because of me. So that is how it happened.”

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Babygirl Lisa Hamme and Usman Umar of 90 Day Fiancé
Babygirl Lisa Hamme and Usman Umar of 90 Day Fiancé | baby_girl_lisa_2020 via Instagram

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While Usman Umar may be claiming Babygirl Lisa threatened suicide, Hamme is claiming that’s not true at all. 

During her Instagram live, Hamme said, “But after hearing the garbage coming out of Sojaboy’s mouth, saying that I tried to hang myself and commit suicide? Big f*ck up Sojaboy, big f*ck up. I would never think suicide over any man.”

Hamme later added, “I’m not a weak woman. So for you to tell people that I was gonna commit suicide over you, that you did me a favor by marrying me — you f*cked up there. That was your first mistake. I would have moved heaven and hell for you Usman Umar.”

How to get help: In the U.S., call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-8255. Or text HOME to 741-741 to connect with a trained crisis counselor at the free Crisis Text Line.