’90 Day Fiance’: Babygirl Lisa Hamme Catches Usman Umar Saying ‘I Love You’ to Another Woman and Things Get Ugly

90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days fans are used to seeing some rocky relationships. But Babygirl Lisa Hamme and Usman Umar take things to a whole other level. Not a single episode has aired where Hamme didn’t get mad at Umar about something. Most of the time, Hamme’s anger toward Umar is unfounded. But in an upcoming episode, Hamme finally finds something to really call Umar out on.

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How did Lisa Hamme and Usman Umar meet?

When Hamme first met Umar, she didn’t think she would ever get engaged to him.

“We met online,” Hamme said in an interview with Without a Crystal Ball. “We met through a mutual friend out of the UK. I knew her, she knew him, and he was looking for a female companion. And I just knew her reputation, I’m like, uh, I don’t know about this…but send him through my filtered messaging, and I’ll see what it’s about.”

Hamme originally didn’t want to give Umar a chance because she thought he might have been a scammer or a “yahoo boy” as it is commonly called.

“And when we first met, I’ll be honest with you…I honestly thought, oh, great, another yahoo boy out of Nigeria that’s going to harass me to no end,” she said. “And I gave him the benefit of the doubt because I don’t like that stigma.”

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Lisa Hamme catches Usman texting other women

The main problem with Hamme and Umar this season has been Hamme’s jealousy. As Umar is a famous rapper in Nigeria, he has to interact with fans often.

In the upcoming episode, Hamme finds a conversation between Umar and another woman on his phone. And it wasn’t just a casual conversation. Apparently, Umar wrote that he loved the woman.

“Yes, that is true — you see that I wrote to her ‘I love you,'” Umar says in the clip obtained by Entertainment Tonight. “But that does not mean that ‘I love you.’ Because if all that ‘I love you’ is coming to me, they are my girlfriends. Then I think I have 100.”

Hamme is very sensitive to any sign of infidelity as she has been cheated on in the past.

“I’m hurt and I’m pissed off, and I have every right to be,” she tells him. “That would be like you opening up my phone and you see that I’m telling some dude that I love him. Not cool.”

Umar tries to explain to her that it is all for his career and that she needs to just be patient with him.

“Despite all the bulls*it drama between Usman and I, I do love Usman more than life and I believe him when he says this woman is nothing to him,” she says on the show. “But I don’t think Usman has ever had a woman put him in his place and I am that woman who has jumped up and said, ‘Hey, you’re not going to mistreat me.'”

Are Lisa Hamme and Usman Umar together now?

Despite fighting for the entire season and Umar revealing some troubling things about the way Hamme treats him, the two are reportedly still together. Hamme’s name on Instagram is Fatima Lisa Umar, meaning she is most likely still Umar’s wife.