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The Season 4 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days “Tell-All” was the beginning of the end for Babygirl Lisa Hamme and Usman Umar. The couple fought throughout the special and, though it was not aired, the leaked footage revealed that Lisa had called her husband the N-word.

Babygirl Lisa Hamme
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Babygirl Lisa Hamme says Usman Umar scammed her and TLC

Shortly after the “Tell-All” aired, Lisa took to Instagram to claim that Usman had scammed her.

“To everyone listening here, it’s very apparent that I am a victim of a romance scam. My husband has used TLC, his family, his friends, people around the world. And I’m going to apologize to everyone here. I did not know that my husband, Sojaboy, was that desperate to become a singer that he would use me and his family and friends. And TLC, the show,” she said. 

The reality star went on to say that Usman had blocked her and completely ceased all communication.

“He blocked me on all platforms so I don’t know what’s going on and that’s the sad part because everyone comes and tells me what’s going on. I cannot believe Sojaboy is gonna try and come off as a saint. This man had nothing when I met him, nothing,” she said.

“He used me and my daughter, telling us that he loved us, that we were the only people that mattered in his life, that he would love me until the day I die,” Lisa continued.

Babygirl Lisa heard that Usman has filed for divorce

Babygirl Lisa took to Instagram to claim that Usman had used her almost two months ago. According to the reality star, she’s been blocked that entire time and she’s still relying on other people to find out about the status of her marriage with Usman.

In an interview she did with Domenick Nati on July 17, she said she’d been told that Usman has filed for divorce.

“Honestly, I can only tell you what I’ve heard from the grapevine. Usman has had me blocked for a very long time, Dom. But he’s told everybody that he’s filed for divorce so I will wait for my paperwork,” she said.  


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“Do you want to get a divorce?” asked Nati.

“My heart and my mind have been fighting back and forth. But my mind is taking over and letting me know that I’ll be happy to receive my divorce papers,” she said.

In his own interview with Nati that took place on May 31, Usman said that he did not scam Lisa, that if he wanted to scam someone he would have chosen “someone who is rich.”