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Babygirl Lisa Hamme and Usman Umar are having some trouble in their relationship, but what’s new? The two have had more ups and downs than any other couple on this season of 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days. Though they always seem to be on the verge of a breakup, we do know from Hamme’s social media account that the pair actually did go through with their wedding despite the rumors of infidelity going on between them.

But recently, Hamme did admit that there was one way that she would be OK with Umar being with other women.

Lisa Hamme and Usman Umar
Lisa Hamme and Usman Umar | Instagram @baby_girl_lisa_2020

How did Lisa and Usman meet?

When Umar and Hamme met, Umar was looking for a girlfriend. Hamme, on the other hand, wasn’t sure what she was getting into.

“We met online,” Hamme said in an interview with Without a Crystal Ball. “We met through a mutual friend out of the UK. I knew her, she knew him, and he was looking for a female companion. And I just knew her reputation, I’m like, uh, I don’t know about this…but send him through my filtered messaging, and I’ll see what it’s about.”

Hamme was worried that Umar would be a “yahoo boy,” which is a common term for scammers.

“I was 49 and Usman was 29 when we first met,” she said. “And when we first met, I’ll be honest with you…I honestly thought, oh, great, another yahoo boy out of Nigeria that’s going to harass me to no end. And I gave him the benefit of the doubt because I don’t like that stigma.”

The two began talking regularly and Umar proposed to Hamme over the phone.

Why would Lisa let Usman be with another woman?

When Hamme came to Nigeria, she and Umar had to get his mother’s approval before they could get married. For a while, it seemed like Umar’s mother would not approve because of Hamme’s age and her ability, or lack thereof, to have children. Eventually, she did agree.

But the pregnancy issue has still been a topic of discussion between Hamme and Umar.

“No, I’m not pregnant right now,” she said on the Dominick Nati Show. “As far as children, we are definitely going to try.”

But if she’s not able to get pregnant, she is OK with Umar impregnating someone else.

“If it does not happen, in Nigeria he’s entitled to take four wives,” she said. “I carry the highest title. The second, third, fourth are below.”

So, Hamme doesn’t mind if Umar sleeps with his other wives as long as she has the highest position.


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“So, he may take a second wife as long as he can take care of my house, my bills, and I live comfortably. I don’t have to pay for anything. He has to pay for it all before he can take a second wife.”

If Umar does come over to the United States, he will not be able to work for a while, so Hamme doesn’t really run the risk of Umar taking another wife or sleeping with other women just yet. Given her extreme jealous streak, it’s hard to imagine that she would ever be OK with Umar having another woman in his life.