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90 Day Fiancé: Before The 90 Days star Lisa Hamme – AKA Babygirl – and the drama with her husband, Nigerian native Usman Umar, played out in front of TLC cameras during the most recent season, but it appears that Hamme was hiding a big secret at home in Pennsylvania. Cameras recently spotted Hamme out with another man as they were stocking up on supplies during the COVID-19 lockdown, and now fans want to know if Umar knows about her guy on the side.

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Babygirl Lisa Hamme | Instagram @baby_girl_lisa_2020

The mystery man was not Babygirl Lisa Hamme’s ex-husband

According to Soap Dirt, when Hamme was first spotted out with the mystery man at a store in Pennsylvania, it was assumed that the man was her ex-husband. The exes share a teenage daughter, so it would make perfect sense that they would be stocking up on supplies together.

However, after the outlet ran their story with the photos of the 90 Day Fiancé star, a York, Pennsylvania resident reached out and dished on the man’s true identity.  Apparently, the man is Hamme’s fiancé, and they were together before she left for Nigeria to shoot her scenes for Before The 90 Days.

The insider claims that Hamme has lived with this other man since before she started shooting the TLC reality series, and he even took care of Hamme’s 15-year-old daughter when she was in Nigeria filming 90 Day Fiancé

Hamme’s American fiancé had no idea about ’90 Day Fiancé’

The insider added that Hamme told her American fiancé that she was going on a trip with friends while she filmed 90 Day Fiancé, and that is why he agreed to take care of her teenage daughter. This entire time, Hamme has reportedly been in a relationship with her American fiancé, but she still married SojaBoy when she was in Nigeria.

The source says that Hamme’s American fiancé had “no idea” she was traveling overseas to marry someone else. Hamme took part in Before the 90 Days without her fiancé’s knowledge and was hooking up with Usman behind his back. Many fans find this ironic considering she likes to accuse Usman of flirting with other women.

When Hamme came home to Pennsylvania as a married woman, the source says that she still did not tell her fiancé. She apparently needed his help while she recovered from toe amputation surgery, so she didn’t tell him the truth right away.

Is Usman Umar still in the dark about Babygirl Lisa’s other man?

Eventually, Hamme had to confess to her American fiancé that she had married Umar while she was overseas in Africa. She also had to come clean about being a part of 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days ahead of the Season 4 promos and TLC’s release of the cast names.

According to the source, Hamme’s fiancé was “stunned” by the truth, so it is most likely that Umar had no idea about the other guy when Hamme was in Africa. But now, Hamme’s fiancé is up-to-date, and the question is whether or not Umar is still in the dark?

At this point, it might not matter because it doesn’t look like the marriage is going to last. Another insider claims that Umar was just using Hamme as a ticket to the United States.

It should be noted that Babygirl Lisa and Usman have not confirmed or denied a lot of the rumors surrounding their relationship, but it would come as no surprise to 90 Day Fiancé fans that their relationship is even messier behind the scenes.

Was Usman Umar always going to dump Lisa after ’90 Day Fiancé’

Recently, hours of footage from the 90 Day Fiancé reunion was leaked online, and when Tell-All host Shaun Robinson was speaking with Hamme and Umar, he accused her of using the N-word.

“Lisa, last week you called me ni**er which I know is totally inappropriate in America. You called me ni**er, I don’t even get angry about it because I am used to how you are behaving,” said Umar.

Hamme did not deny using the racial slur, but then she changed the subject and accused him of infidelity. Again, this seems odd considering she had another man living in her home during her time on 90 Day Fiancé, but the accusation was absolutely true.


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Umar has been talking with another woman that he met online during his relationship with Hamme. According to the text messages that Umar’s other woman provided, he was planning to get to the United States with a spousal visa after marrying Hamme in Nigeria. Then, he was going to tell Hamme that he had an opportunity to promote his music out of town but would actually pack his bags and leave Hamme for the other woman.

Usman Umar’s plan fell apart once the woman found out he was married to Babygirl Lisa Hamme and she leaked his text messages.

New episodes of 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days air Sunday nights on TLC.