’90 Day Fiance’: Babygirl Lisa Hamme Wants Everyone to Get Over Her Saying the N-Word

Babygirl Lisa Hamme is tired of all of the backlash that she has gotten from going on 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days. First, she was getting flack for the way that she treated her fiance Usman Umar and now, she is in hot water for calling him the N-word. Though Hamme has admitted that using the N-word was wrong, she thinks it’s time that everyone just gets over it.

Babygirl Lisa Hamme
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Lisa Hamme and Usman Umar’s relationship

When Umar and Hamme met, Umar was looking for a girlfriend.

“We met online,” Hamme said in an interview with Without a Crystal Ball. “We met through a mutual friend out of the UK. I knew her, she knew him, and he was looking for a female companion. And I just knew her reputation, I’m like, uh, I don’t know about this…but send him through my filtered messaging, and I’ll see what it’s about.”

The two had a 20-year age gap and lots of cultural differences between them, but they still managed to start a relationship. Unfortunately, as time went on, Umar’s rap career began to cause trouble in their relationship. Anytime a fan would comment on his social media, Hamme would freak out and verbally berate Umar.

Despite the constant arguments, the two decided that they should get married. Since the show began airing, Umar has flat out admitted that he was not in love with Hamme and only agreed to marry her so that she would not harm herself. The two appear to still be married.

Lisa Hamme calls Usman the N-word

Hamme is no stranger to vulgar, degrading language. She has been called out in the past for using homophobic slurs and now, leaked footage from the “Tell All” shows that Hamme called Umar the N-word.

“The point that I want to bring out is. Please, all the American ladies should tell me about this. Is that how America lady behave?” Umar asked during filming.

Hamme tried to stop Umar from saying what he was about to say next.

“If you start this sh*t again,” she said. “Do not open that can of worms. Do not. Do not start. Let me tell you something. Listen, if you open a can of worms.”

But Umar continued.

“Lisa, last week you called me n*gger which I know is totally inappropriate in America. You called me n*gger, I don’t even get angry about it because I am used to how you are behaving.”


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Babygirl Lisa Hamme is tired of the backlash

On a recent Instagram Live, Hamme addressed the issue.

“Hey everybody, I cannot thank all of you for being so kind to me this season,” she started.

“And to the ones who keep saying I’m racist,” she continued. “Look, I used the wrong word. I apologized it was on my post.”

Though she says that she is sorry, she is tired of talking about the issue.

“But you guys want to raw dog it to no end,” she said. “Go right ahead the truth will come out.”

“When the truth comes out, don’t come to me and apologize.”

90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days airs on TLC on Sundays at 8 p.m. ET.