Deavan Clegg is tired of people taking Jihoon Lee’s side. Though she moved on quickly after their breakup, the 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way star wants fans to know that she did try to make her relationship with Lee work and claims it’s his fault things didn’t work out. Recently, she lashed out at viewers on Instagram, claiming that they didn’t know all of the facts.
What happened between Jihoon and Deavan?
Clegg moved to Korea to be with Lee this season. Unfortunately, he had lied about having the means to support her and her kids. This caused a lot of tension in his relationship with Clegg and she constantly debated whether she should stay with him or not.
In the end, she decided to go back to America. Lee announced the breakup on Instagram, claiming that Clegg promised to bring their son Taeyang back to Korea each summer to see him.
Deavan vs. Jihoon
Clegg recently posted a picture with a caption accusing Lee of using their son for sympathy from fans.
“I hate how everyone thinks I’m taking you away from a certain someone,” she wrote in a now-deleted caption under a picture of Taeyang. “When in reality I tried my best, yet that certain someone hasn’t called, texted, or asked about you in weeks. And the little money they gave to you, they asked for back. People are attacking us for a man who attacked us. But the truth always comes out. Seeing someone play victim and pretend and lie…I’m sick of the lies. I’m sick of pretending because I’m scared of a piece of paper. Anyways I’m not keeping my child from a certain person.”
Lee later shot back at Clegg, claiming that he never tried to play the victim. He revealed that he blocked Clegg on social media because he didn’t want to see what was going on in her life and that he was hurt by everything that had happened.
Deavan accuses Jihoon of doing vile things
When Clegg posted a picture of another man holding Taeyang, fans criticized her for replacing Lee so quickly. Eventually, Clegg had enough and stood up for herself.
“I’m just going to say something… I’m blocked on social media, my number is blocked,” she wrote in a comment captured by Cinema Blend. “I’ve reached out, sent photos of my son with no replies. I’ve tried and offered to come to Korea. I’m sick of being blamed when I’m the one trying to co-parent.
“I was told several times to just pretend it never happened because that’s what this certain person wants. I’m the one who paid for all the hospital bills, I’m the one who paid for everything in Korea, I’m the one still supporting my son with no help. I’m the one doing everything so why I’m I being attacked? Because I moved on? Because I was tired of being used and not getting any help in return?”
She went on to tell fans that Lee was not so innocent and in fact had done some pretty awful things.
“I tried and this person has said some vile things about my son and has blocked any way of me getting in contact to even send photos of my son?” she wrote. “But yet you guys attack me? You don’t know what happened behind close doors you don’t know the type of evil that happened. I’m sick of being attacked and blamed and being told I’m a horrible person and I took my son away. You guys don’t know the half of it. My daughter is healing and I’m healing.”
She promised that everything would come out at the reunion special.
“Wait till the Tell All I’m tired of this. Something bad happened that can never be forgiven,” she said. “I tried to co-parent but that’s kind of hard to do when the other person has deleted any type of way to get in contact. Also kind of difficult when the only time he contacts you is to call you degrading vile names. He’s told me time and time again he just wants to pretend it didn’t happen and has called me, my son, Drascilla vile things. I’m done I’m sick of the lies I’m sick of pretending it’s OK I’m done.”