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‘90 Day Fiancé’ Fans Think That Ariela Sabotaged Her Relationship to Biniyam

On '90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way', Ariela Weinberg forces her fiancé, Biniyam Shibre to move with her to Kenya in order for a fresh start. While Ariela believes that Biniyam was unfaithful to her while she was in the US, some fans believe she brought this on herself. Did Ariela sabotage her relationship with Biniyam?

On 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way, Ariela Weinberg gives her fiancé, Biniyam Shibre, an ultimatum to either move to Kenya or break up. While Ariela believes that Biniyam was unfaithful to her while in the United States with their son, Avi, some fans believe she brought this on herself. Did Ariela sabotage her relationship with Biniyam?

Ariela Weinberg crying in Kenya with Biniyam on '90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way' Season 3
Ariela Weinberg, ’90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way’ Season 3 | discovery+

Ariela tells Biniyam she wont be coming back to Ethiopia

Ariela spent two and a half months in the United States to get Avi an emergency hernia surgery. Now that Avi recovered, Ariela is more worried about the state of her relationship. She said, “Bini’s reckless behavior is not only embarrassing to me but our entire family.” Ariela explained, “But I promised Bini I would not keep him from Avi, so I’ve decided to go to the neighboring country of Kenya. We’ve been there before and for me. It’s neutral territory.”

Ariela gives Biniyam an ultimatum. He can either follow Ariela and Avi to Kenya or break up and write up a custody agreement. She says, “I’m going to give you a chance if you want to try to be a family. Me and Avi and you can move to Mombasa, and we can start over again.”

Biniyam and Ariela have a serious conversation about their relationship

Ariela hired a translator to talk to Biniyam, so there weren’t any miscommunications in their conversation. She told Biniyam their mutual friends and family claim to have seen Biniyam with “different women” around town. She concluded that all of the information points to Biniyam cheating on her.

Ariela explained, “So, because of the shame that I’ve begun to feel, I realized that I could never go back and live in Ethiopia.” She said, “People have seen you with one or two particular women, again and again.” Biniyam denies that he ever was unfaithful to her. He said Ariela is just “imagining” that he is cheating because she was so far away. “I definitely did not cheat on her,” Biniyam says. “Until you take responsibility for your actions and your decisions, I will never be in a romantic relationship again,” Ariela tells him.

’90 Day Fiancé’ fans think Ariela sabotaged her relationship to Biniyam

Many 90 Day Fiancé fans are confused about Ariela’s behavior. One fan wrote on Reddit, “Ari seems like she just flipped a switch and is irrationally upset with Bini. I know their son needed surgery, but it seems she took an inordinate amount of time in the US and is now blaming Bini for everything. Seems like she is just looking for a reason to get out of the relationship.”


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In that same thread, other 90 Day Fiancé fans agree. One user commented, “I think she was intent on not coming back. She grabbed on to the biggest reason she could find (him having friends over and just overall not being super sad about them being gone) and has adjusted her story accordingly.”

Could it be that Airela is using whatever excuse she can to get out of her relationship with Biniyam? Some fans think it could be the case. Others point out the show cannot reveal every detail of their relationship. This could make it seem like Ariela is overreacting. Fans will have to tune into 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way to find out more about their relationship and if it will last.