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90 Day Fiancé fans probably noticed that Geoffrey Paschel and Varya Malina were not in attendance at the season “Tell-All.” Geoffrey wasn’t invited because he’s been accused of abuse and Varya didn’t attend because she felt it wouldn’t have been “fair” to Geoffrey to go without him.

In June 2019, Geoffrey was arrested after his ex-girlfriend called police claiming he assaulted her. This isn’t the first time Geoffrey has been accused of abuse by an ex.

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Geoffrey on his arrest and not being invited to the ’90 Day Fiancé’ Tell All

“When I first got arrested in June it was for domestic assault, which is bad in itself but it’s a misdemeanor. They tried to drop the chargers but the ‘victim’ [he used air quotes here] didn’t want to drop it. She pressed forward. They offered me no punishment whatsoever just to have it on my record. I said, ‘No. Absolutely not.’ They said, ‘If you don’t take it, we’re gonna take you to the grand jury, try to trump up the charges, we’ll try to get you on kidnapping…’ I was like, ‘You do whatever the hell you want to do. I am not accepting anything other than a full exoneration,’” he said of his arrest last year.

Geoffrey blamed his not being invited to the “Tell-All” on the Me Too movement.

“I feel that the network has bowed down to the pressure of a few thousand people as opposed to the .3 million people that watch the show, which is unfortunate. We’re in a different time now. The whole Me Too movement and whatever. So there’s a lot of pressure to cower to the minority and wanting to make sure that they’re making the wrong decision,” he said.

So the plan was for Geoffrey to release his own “Tell-All.” 

“I’m gonna release my own Tell-All on my YouTube channel. So subscribe. And I’m gonna let it all be known there. And we’ll dish out. We’re gonna have several people on, too, to explain a lot of the situations,” he said.

Geoffrey will not be releasing his ‘Tell-All’ because ‘plans have changed’

And he actually filmed it. Domenick Nati hosted and the video featured both Varya and Mary. But Geoffrey recently announced on Instagram Live that he will not be releasing the video.

“I’m not gonna be releasing that Tell-All. Maybe one day I’ll do it for sh*ts and giggles,” he said.


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As for the reason he’s not releasing his “Tell-All,” the reality TV personality offered: “plans have changed” and “there are different things in the works now.”  

Geoffrey also insisted that he “wasn’t fired” and that his “contract is still valid.” He says fans will have to “be patient” about finding out about him, Varya, and Mary.  

“I promise, promise, promise it will be worth it,” he said.

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