’90 Day Fiancé’: Geoffrey Paschel Offers Unsolicited Marriage Advice

90 Day Fiancé fans watched Geoffrey Paschel try to make things work with his Russian girlfriend, Varya Malina, on the fourth season of 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days. In an interview Geoffrey did with The Domenick Nati Show that was released June 13, he said looked overseas for a girlfriend because he found himself always seeking out “the same type of women.”

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’90 Day Fiancé’ star Geoffrey Paschel | Geoffrey Paschel via Instagram

“Where I live, I go for the same type of women. I mean, that’s why I’m in the position I’m in now. I get these partners that I think, ‘Oh, I can help them. They need this, they need that. Let me fix them. I can be that person. They just need a good, strong shoulder to cry on’–whatever. I got in that fixing rut and so I wanted something completely new,” he said.

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The “position [Geoffrey is] in now” is that he’s being accused of domestic assault by an ex-girlfriend.

“When I first got arrested in June it was for domestic assault, which is bad in itself but it’s a misdemeanor. They tried to drop the chargers but the ‘victim’ [he used air quotes here] didn’t want to drop it. She pressed forward. They offered me no punishment whatsoever just to have it on my record. I said, ‘No. Absolutely not.’ They said, ‘If you don’t take it, we’re gonna take you to the grand jury, try to trump up the charges, we’ll try to get you on kidnapping…’ I was like, ‘You do whatever the hell you want to do. I am not accepting anything other than a full exoneration,’” he told Nati, adding that the charge was “an agenda to try and make me lose custody of my child.”

’90 Day Fiancé’ star Geoffrey Paschel gives some marriage advice

Geoffrey and Nati recently went on Instagram Live to play a game of strip “Have You Ever?” with 90 Day Fiancé fans. In the middle of the game, Geoffrey, who’s been married four times, offered Nati some marriage advice.

He told the radio host that his wife “left [him]” because he’s “f*cking vanilla.” 

“You’ve got to put yourself out there. It’s not about your stylish little haircut. I don’t care. Like, my hair, man? I cut my own hair. I could not care any less about my hair. Your little cigar-smoking, your little sunglasses, you wear a little button-up shirt and stuff like that. It’s not about that,” said the controversial reality personality.  


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“Gucci doesn’t matter. None of it matters. It’s about what you put out and what you do to make your special person feel special. If you’re vanilla, she’s left unsatisfied, Domenick,” he continued.  

At this point, Instagram users started to comment on the video to suggest that Geoffrey should go easier on Nati. But he plowed through.

The reality star told Nati that he needs to make his partner feel special.

“I see your face right now. You want to smile but you can’t smile. It’s all fake. I’m sorry, buddy. I don’t think that’s it, I know that’s it. You gotta make the woman you’re with feel special. What makes her better than all the other women that want Domenick?” he said.