’90 Day Fiancé’: Geoffrey Paschel Used to Respond to Everyone Who Accused Him of Abuse Online

When 90 Day Fiancé fans discovered that Geoffrey Paschel has been accused of assaulting his ex-girlfriend, they started a petition to get him removed from the show. TLC must have been listening because the controversial reality star was uninvited from the “Tell-All.”

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’90 Day Fiancé’ star Geoffrey Paschel | Geoffrey Paschel via Instagram

Geoffrey Paschel was arrested for domestic assault

In an interview Geoffrey did with The Domenick Nati Show on May 19, he spoke about the current charges against him.

“When I first got arrested in June it was for domestic assault, which is bad in itself but it’s a misdemeanor. They tried to drop the chargers but the ‘victim’ [he used air quotes here] didn’t want to drop it. She pressed forward,” he said.

Geoffrey continued: “They offered me no punishment whatsoever just to have it on my record. I said, ‘No. Absolutely not.’ They said, ‘If you don’t take it, we’re gonna take you to the grand jury, try to trump up the charges, we’ll try to get you on kidnapping…’ I was like, ‘You do whatever the hell you want to do. I am not accepting anything other than a full exoneration.’”

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Today was supposed to be my hearing date for the June 2019 allegations. Unfortunately, it has once again been delayed due to the pandemic. I have been very eager to go and reveal the truth surrounding the evidence in question. I have continually requested the earliest possible dates every time so that I expeditiously clear my name. I have been forced to hide under a rock and told that the “hate will just go away” if I ignored it. That is not me, and I can’t take constant accusations from people, whilst I lie in silence, any longer. . These claims are the main reason I’ve been lambasted with such vitriol. I can assure you, if any of these fables were true, I would bow out and accept responsibility. Not all is as it seems. I have been held back from defending myself, but the time has come that I stand up to the incredulous and contrived conditions that keep compounding due to the viral spread of sensationalized opinions and lazy, one sided, internet reporting—meant only for clickbait. There are unscrupulous intentions behind this endeavor to defame me and it is due to the custody situations I am currently in. Consequently, the only way for the actual truth to be known, is for me to speak out. . I am 100% categorically innocent and I cannot wait to share my trove of evidence…soon. From the onset of these allegations, there has always been an agenda with the sole purpose of sabotaging my custody battleS. There was never any sort of accusations until court proceedings were initiated. Furthermore, at no point was there any violence exhibited toward that woman or any other woman—ever. These are merely combined battles to win their selfish war. However, I will continue to fight for what is best for my children. Co-parenting seems to be a lost art when anger, resentment and jealousy are involved. My goal is to look beyond said fog and focus on what is in THEIR best interests. They are the ones that matter. . When something is wrong, no matter what it is, I will be the first defender. I should not have to change this tactic when I am involved. . Stay tuned for THE truth, I am preparing it now for my own tell-all.

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In terms of not being invited to the “Tell-All,” Geoffrey blames the Me Too movement.

“I feel that the network has bowed down to the pressure of a few thousand people as opposed to the 3 million people that watch the show, which is unfortunate. We’re in a different time now. The whole Me Too movement and whatever. So there’s a lot of pressure to cower to the minority and wanting to make sure that they’re not making the wrong decision,” he said.

Geoffrey was originally going to release his own “Tell-All” with both Varya Malina and Mary Wallace in attendance. But he ended up canceling the video.

Geoffrey used to message fans who accused him of abuse online

Geoffrey says, when fans first began learning about the charges against him, he would answer each message individually with his side of the story.

“It eats me up. My personality is I want everyone to like me. I don’t know why, that’s just part of me. You’re gonna call me a woman beater or something like that, I’m like, ‘No, no, no, no! Hear me out.’ Individually, I would stay up all night messaging these folks and saying, ‘I did not do that! This is the case, this is the situation. You know, think about this for a second. Use some common sense,’” he said.

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Geoffrey has yet to go to court for his arrest last year, he says because of the coronavirus (COVID-19) pandemic.

“I know what happened. I was there. And I’m ready to face it. Every time my court date gets put off, specifically due to the pandemic, I’m trying to push the quickest court date that I can and get this stuff over with. So I’m trying my best to get this court date over with as quick as possible. Because I have everything I need to exonerate me,” he said, adding that the whole thing is “just a ploy” to “try and make me lose custody of my child.”

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