’90 Day Fiancé’: How Geoffrey Paschel Responds to R-Rated DMs Could Be Telling of His Relationship Status

Typically, 90 Day Fiancé viewers find out what happened to all the couples during the season “Tell-All.” But at the Season 4 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days “Tell-All,” there were a couple of people missing.

Geoffrey Paschel and Varya Malina were infamously not in attendance.

Geoffrey Paschel
Geoffrey Paschel | Geoffrey Paschel via Instagram

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Geoffrey was uninvited to the “Tell-All” after fans started a petition to get him removed from the show after learning that he’d been accused of domestic assault.

“I feel that the network has bowed down to the pressure of a few thousand people as opposed to the 3 million people that watch the show, which is unfortunate. We’re in a different time now. The whole Me Too movement and whatever. So there’s a lot of pressure to cower to the minority and wanting to make sure that they’re not making the wrong decision,” the controversial reality star said on The Domenick Nati Show on May 19.

Varya chose not to attend the “Tell-All” because Geoffrey wasn’t invited. She said in her own interview with Nati that she didn’t think it’d be “fair” to talk about their relationship without Geoffrey present.

Varya also told Nati that she’s received a lot of feedback from fans about her relationship with Geoffrey.

“The main comment, the most popular comment in my DMs was: ‘Varya you dodged a bullet.’ It was everywhere,” she said of the most common message she received after it appeared as though she and Geoffrey had split. “I want to say that Geoffrey is not a bullet. He’s like an AK-47. You will run and zig-zag, you will have no chance to dodge the bullet.”

Since the couple didn’t appear on the “Tell-All,” fans are still in the dark about if Geoffrey and Varya are still together. Some of Geoffrey’s social media activity might hint that he’s no longer with his Russian fiancé.

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In an Instagram live the reality star did with Nati on July 13, he spoke about all the gifts and messages fans send him to his P.O. Box. He even received something from London recently.

“Do you get a lot of nudes, unsolicited, sent to your DMs?” asked Nati.

“Loads. Like, loads. Like, so many. And so, I don’t know what to say. So I’m like… ‘Thanks?’ Or I’ll send maybe a heart eyes or that emoji [with the surprised face],” responded Geoffrey.


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Nati also asked the reality star if he used to “send nudes” prior to appearing on 90 Day Fiancé.

“I send nudes now. What are you talking about?” responded Geoffrey.

When fans ask Geoffrey if he’ll tell them if he’s still with Varya on Instagram, he answers: “per my contract, I cannot.”

Other 90 Day Fiancé stars have said the NDA cast members sign ends nine months after the last episode the star was featured in. So Geoffrey will most likely reveal his relationship status at that time. In the meantime, fans will just have to continue to hunt for clues in his social media activity.