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Oh, how the plot thickens. Babygirl Lisa Hamme is in hot water now. Originally, 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days fans believed it was Usman Umar who was the one in the relationship for the wrong reasons, but now Hamme has potentially been cheating on Umar with her ex-husband.

Babygirl Lisa Hamme
Babygirl Lisa Hamme | Instagram @baby_girl_lisa_2020

Babygirl Lisa and Usman’s relationship

When Umar and Hamme first met, Hamme was worried that he would be a “yahoo boy,” which is a term used for men who scam to get something out of people.

“We met online,” Hamme said in an interview with Without a Crystal Ball. “We met through a mutual friend out of the UK. I knew her, she knew him, and he was looking for a female companion. And I just knew her reputation, I’m like, uh, I don’t know about this…but send him through my filtered messaging, and I’ll see what it’s about.”

Though Hamme was worried about Umar’s authenticity, she continued on with the relationship.

“I was 49 and Usman was 29 when we first met,” she said. “And when we first met, I’ll be honest with you…I honestly thought, oh, great, another yahoo boy out of Nigeria that’s going to harass me to no end. And I gave him the benefit of the doubt because I don’t like that stigma.”

Usman says Lisa threatened to kill herself

Throughout their time on the show, people have wondered if Umar was actually in love with Hamme or if he was just trying to get to America to take his music career to the next level. Well, Umar has now admitted that he did not marry Hamme for love, but for a much more serious reason.

“So when Lisa started telling me that she loves me, I was like OK,” he said in an interview on Angela Yee’s Lip Service podcast. “Because this woman is always giving me this love stuff and if I say no that, she started crying. And if you want to win my heart, if you want to force me to do anything, start crying. I hate to see anybody cry. So maybe she used that advantage, she started crying all the time and I say, ‘OK, OK you love me? I love you too and let’s move on.”

Umar later realized things would never work between them.

“So, after some time, I was like, ‘This cannot continue.’ We spent about one year, you telling me that you love me, you love me. And I was saying ‘I love you, I love you.’ But deeply, I know it’s not love. I don’t love you for real honestly,” he said. “But I do that to make you happy. So Lisa started trying to commit suicide, I was like ‘No.’”

A rep for Hamme denied that the reality star never threatened to kill herself.

Is Lisa cheating on Usman?

Hamme was recently spotted out grocery shopping with a man who fans believed was her ex-husband, but it is hard to tell as the two were wearing face masks as a precaution during the coronavirus (COVID-19) pandemic.

Fans were quick to suspect that this meant Umar and Hamme had broken up.

“I’m praying it means Usman woke up and decided she wasn’t worth the trouble,” one person commented on the photo.

“Maybe Usman is free from this but bag!” another person wrote.