‘90 Day Fiancé’: Kimberly Responds Pressuring Usman ‘Sojaboy’ Umar for Intimacy — ‘I Am Embarrassed’

On the Jan. 30 episode of 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days, Kimberly Dawn responded to fans saying she was pressuring Usman’ Sojaboy’ Umar to have sex with her. While Kim said she was “embarrassed” by her behavior, she didn’t apologize for being pushy with Usman. Here’s what she had to say.

Kimberly wearing a pink nightie with red hearts on it as she lays in bed with Usman on '90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days' Season 5.
Kimberly, ’90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days’ Season 5 | TLC

Usman felt uncomfortable with Kimberly pressuring him for intimacy

In the Jan. 30 episode of Before the 90 Days, Usman decided to move from his hotel room to Kim’s room. Once in the room, Kim attempted to seduce Usman with lingerie, rose petals, and champagne. After they got into bed, Kimberly immediately began pushing for intimacy. She said, “Are we going to bed? Are we going to sleep? No sex? We’re just gonna go to sleep?”

When Usman said clearly, “No, no, no sex,” Kimberly began getting pushy. But Usman wanted to decide their relationship before they had sex. She yells, “Why don’t you wanna have sex with me, though?”

Other than begging, Kim pressures Usman by threatening to cry. Usman says, “It’s not that I don’t want to. I just feel like it is not yet time.” After she began getting more upset, Usman took his bags to leave back to his hotel room. Ultimately, Usman came back to Kim’s hotel room under the condition that they would only sleep.

Kimberly feels ’embarrassed’ for pressuring Usman

After the episode of Before the 90 Days aired, 90 Day Fiancé fans were shocked by Kimberly’s pushiness. On Jan. 31, Kim responded to her haters on her Instagram Stories. She wrote:

“So, I am aware that last night’s episode put me into a very negative light. I have no excuses and just have to take the negativity. Let me just say that I am embarrassed and leave it at that. Attacking me in my DMs and comments is cool. Whatever. But attacking my body weight isn’t cool. No one should fat shame or bully anyone.”

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'Before the 90 Days' Season 5 stars Kimberly wearing a bright orange top and Usman wearing a denim button down
Kimberly and Usman “Sojaboy” | TLC

’90 Day Fiancé’ fans ‘appalled’ by Kimberly’s behavior

After the episode, fans didn’t hold back with their opinions. One fan wrote (via Reddit), “I am appalled by Kimbaly [sic] right now. Like Usman or not, no one deserves to be treated the way Kim is treating him at the moment. The guilt trips, the manipulation, and lies are just awful. He owes her nothing.”

Another fan commented, “She’s tried everything but holding a gun to his head… she has no shame… if I were her, I’d be so EMBARRASSED about how desperate she is.”

Will Kim and Usman get intimate by the end of their trip? Fans will have to keep watching. 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days Season 5 airs Sundays on TLC and discovery+.

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