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On the Dec. 5 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way Season 3 tell-all episode, Steven’s ex, Vanessa, exposes his cheating past to Alina. She reveals that during their short relationship, Steven cheated on her three times while he was away in Russia. Here’s what we know about Steven’s dark history of infidelity.

Steven on '90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way' Season 3 tell-all episode in New York City
Steven on ’90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way’ | TLC

Steven sexted with 9 women after marrying Alina

During the preview for 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way Season 3 tell-all (via ET), Steven admits to Alina that he inappropriately texted nine women after he and Alina argued. Steven confessed, “Last week, probably about nine girls were sending me inappropriate messages and images of like, you know, their boobs and naked pictures. I started responding back, kind of encouraging that.”

Steven admitted, “I foolishly started sending pictures of myself and things like that.” When asked what kinds of pictures he sent, he said, “Just a selfie of my face, I was fully clothed, and I was sticking my tongue out. I have kind of a long tongue. And I was saying like, ‘Wow, I have a really long tongue. Too bad I don’t know how to use it.'”

Alina found out about Steven’s serial sexting from the women themselves. She said, “Those girls, they sent me all the screenshots. I’ve seen everything.”

Steven’s ex-girlfriend Vanessa exposes his past cheating

Steven’s ex-girlfriend, Vanessa, exposes Steven’s history of cheating during their short-lived relationship. While they were together “only like three of four months,” she was under the impression that they were in a monogamous relationship. When Steven left for Russia for two months, she allowed him to date other girls, as long as he didn’t “go all the way” sexually with them.

Despite Vanessa being open to Steven dating, he took it too far. Vanessa said, “He had confessed to me that while he was in Russia, he had had sex with three girls.” Vanessa said she thought Steven had pretended to be serious about the monogamous relationship. She admitted to being left feeling heartbroken by Steven’s cheating.

Vanessa warns Alina about Steven’s behavior

Also revealed in the clip, Steven admits that he wishes he and Alina could have a threesome. Steven said, “It would be easier if we were able to find a way where I wouldn’t have to repress these urges and these feelings as much.” Much to his co-stars’ surprise, he says, “For some reason, I really want to have a threesome.”


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Vanessa didn’t hold back when asked how she feels about his behavior and his current marriage with Alina. She said, “The things that I’m hearing, how he has nine girls he’s spoken to, [and] that he wants to have a threesome. Why is he trying to convince her to do this?” Then, Vanessa talked directly to Alina, saying, “I know divorce is so difficult. You made these vows to him. But I don’t think he’s going to change.”

Alina hoped Steven’s habit of flirting with women online would be a thing of the past once they were married. However, it seems that Steven is still living as if he were a bachelor. 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way fans can watch the rest of the season 3 tell-all on Dec. 5 on TLC.