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90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days star, Usman’ Sojaboy’ Umar has a “potential” relationship with Kimberly Menzies. However, this isn’t his first relationship with an older American woman. Is he still married to ‘Baby Girl’ Lisa Hamme?

Usman 'Sojaboy' Umar wearing traditional Nigerian clothing with 'Baby Girl' Lisa Hamme on their wedding day on '90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days' Season 4.
Usman’ Sojaboy’ Umar and ‘Baby Girl’ Lisa Hamme, ’90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days’ Season 4 | TLC

Usman ‘Sojaboy’ Umar and Kimberly’s ‘potential’ relationship on ’90 Day Fiancé’

In Before the 90 Days Season 5, Usman invites his new “potential girlfriend,” Kimberly, to the shooting for his recent music video ‘Zara’ in Tanzania. After meeting for the first time, Kimberly is optimistic that she will get out of the friend zone and into a relationship with Usman by the end of the trip.

Kimberly is doing everything she can to boost her chances of being Usman’s girlfriend, including giving Usman a brand new Macbook Pro and a PS5. In the trailer for this season of 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days, Kim and Usman are in bed together.

Despite the lingerie and champagne, Usman rejects Kim’s sexual advances. When Kim asks why Usman doesn’t want to get intimate with her, he gets up from the bed and leaves.

Is Usman still married to ‘Baby girl’ Lisa Hamme?

Usman got into a relationship with 53-year-old “Baby girl” Lisa Hamme back in season 4 of 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days. Despite their toxic relationship, the couple married in Nigeria. By the season 4 tell-all, the cultural difference, age gap, and trust issues became too much for the couple, and they were talking divorce.

90 Day Fiancé blogger, Morph DRTH, revealed that when Kimberly and Usman were filming, Usman was still married to Lisa. On Jan 4, Lisa commented, “Boom yes Sojab—h is still married to me.”

‘Baby girl’ Lisa moves on from Usman

90 Day Fiancé fans are surprised to discover that Lisa and Usman could potentially still be married as Lisa has since remarried. In April 2021, Lisa married her American husband, Tracey.


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According to Hollywood Gossip, Lisa had known Tracey long before they decided to get married. Lisa says she has known Tracey since the fifth grade. The former 90 Day Fiancé star confirmed her marriage to Tracey with a selfie, captioned, “married my best friend Apr 22, 2021!!!!”

Could Usman’s past marriage to Lisa affect Lisa’s chances at a relationship? 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days airs Sundays on TLC and discovery+.