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Babygirl Lisa Hamme and Usman Umar have been the talk of ’90 Day Fiancé’: Before the 90 Days since they first appeared on the show. Their 20-year age difference isn’t what got the show’s fans in a tiff, it was Hamme’s constant harassment of Umar, her jealous streak, and the way that she degraded him with derogatory language. Despite all of that and fans constantly commenting on social media for Umar to leave Hamme, he recently revealed that the two are on good terms.

Lisa Hamme and Usman Umar
Lisa Hamme and Usman Umar | Instagram @baby_girl_lisa_2020

How did Lisa Hamme and Usman Umar meet?

When Umar and Hamme met, Hamme was the one who was skeptical at first.

“We met online,” Hamme said in an interview with Without a Crystal Ball. “We met through a mutual friend out of the UK. I knew her, she knew him, and he was looking for a female companion. And I just knew her reputation, I’m like, uh, I don’t know about this…but send him through my filtered messaging, and I’ll see what it’s about.”

Hamme decided to continue talking to Umar despite her reservations that he could be scamming her.

“I was 49 and Usman was 29 when we first met,” she said. “And when we first met, I’ll be honest with you…I honestly thought, oh, great, another yahoo boy out of Nigeria that’s going to harass me to no end. And I gave him the benefit of the doubt because I don’t like that stigma.”

Usman says he never loved Lisa

Umar recently gave an interview where he revealed that he never actually wanted to marry Hamme.

“I’m doing this to make Lisa happy,” he said of their union. He went on to say that Hamme threatened to harm herself if he did not marry her so he went through with it.

Lisa called Usman the n-word

In recently released footage from the reunion special, Umar revealed that Hamme called him the n-word.

Hamme tried to block Umar from telling the audience the truth.

“If you start this sh*t again,” she said. “Do not open that can of worms. Do not. Do not start. Let me tell you something. Listen, if you open a can of worms.”

But Umar continued anyway.

“Lisa, last week you called me n*gger which I know is totally inappropriate in America. You called me n*gger, I don’t even get angry about it because I am used to how you are behaving.”


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Usman and Lisa are back on good terms

Since the footage from the reunion was leaked, Hamme has been working overtime to prove that she and Umar are still happy together. She recently posted a video of her and Umar all cuddled up.

“You see her, we have resolved everything,” Umar said. Everything is OK now. Not going to have any problems anymore.”

“And I didn’t break his legs,” Hamme added.

Hamme also went live on Instagram to tell fans that she had apologized to Umar for using the horrible term.

“It is said if you sin and you apologize and you pray for forgiveness, it is forgiven,” she said. “So, my husband and I, it is a private manner between him and I. Because they are not going to drop it and it’s sad. Because the world needs to be united. We are human beings.”