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90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days star Usman “Sojaboy” Umar just admitted that he never loved his wife, Lisa “Babygirl” Hamme. The couple experienced a contentious season on 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days that included claims that Usman used Lisa to boost his music career. With the tell-all special right around the corner, here’s a look at what Usman had to say about his marriage.

'Babygirl' Lisa Hamme and Usman Umar of 90 Day Fiancé
‘Babygirl’ Lisa Hamme and Usman Umar of 90 Day Fiancé | baby_girl_lisa_2020 via Instagram

Usman opens up about his relationship with Lisa since filming ’90 Day Fiancé’

Now that season 4 of 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days is a wrap, Usman and Lisa are preparing for what should be an explosive tell-all. We are still a few days away from part one of the tell-all, but that did not stop Usman from sharing his thoughts on his tumultuous relationship with Lisa.

During an appearance on The Domenick Nati Show, Usman fired back at the allegations that he only married Lisa for fame. The reality star said that if he was trying to scam someone he would have targeted “someone who is rich.”

He went on to reveal that he has not applied for a green card and has no intention of going to the United States. Usman is apparently worried that Lisa will call the police on him and that he might get shot as a result.

Usman also clarified why he recently blocked Lisa on social media. He stated that she was harassing some of his 90 Day Fiancé fans and so he blocked her to prevent that from happening.

What did Usman say about his love for Lisa?

When it comes to loving Lisa, Usman refused to answer because he does not want to hurt her feelings. He added that if things do not get better quickly than he and Lisa will likely get a divorce.

In what was perhaps his most shocking comment, Usman confessed that he did not marry Lisa for love. Instead, he claims that his main source of motivation was his “pity” for the 90 Day Fiancé star.

“It wasn’t love for love. I loved her for pity,” he shared.

Lisa has yet to respond to Usman’s latest claims. She has, however, confirmed on social media that they are no longer together.

Luckily, they both took part in the upcoming tell-all, so we should get another update on their relationship status in the near future. Until then, Lisa has been feeling a little nostalgic on Instagram.

Lisa shares throwback pics from their ’90 Day Fiancé’ wedding

Amid their split, Lisa recently posted a slew of photos from the couple’s wedding in Nigeria. The ceremony was featured on the most recent episode of 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days and was one of the few times the two seemed happy together.

The pics include a shot of Lisa wearing a red dress posing next to Usman, who is rocking a gold getup, and a photo of the couple riding in a car after the ceremony.

Given everything that has happened between Lisa and Usman in recent weeks, the timing of the post caught many 90 Day Fiancé fans off guard. It also came shortly after Lisa slammed Usman for trying to pull a “romance scam.”

“To everyone listening here, it is very apparent that I am the victim of romance scam. My husband has used TLC, his family, his friends, people around the world, I’m going to apologize to everyone here,” she stated on Instagram Live. “I did not know my husband Usman “Sojaboy” was that desperate to become a singer that he would use me and his family and friends.”

Usman leaks text message from Lisa

As if the drama couldn’t get any worse, Usman recently posted screenshots of several text messages he received from Lisa. The 90 Day Fiancé star reportedly sent the messages to Usman right after her Instagram Live rant.

“I am your wife. Contrary to the bullshit lies coming out of your mouth,” Lisa texted him. “’m not being mean to you. But I’m telling you the facts. Apparently, you don’t know what I did last night my husband.”

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Usman fired back that he had received plenty of messages about her comments. After Usman admitted to watching her Instagram Live feed, she issued a threat, writing, “I warned you. You will see.”

The texts did not reveal anything else about their drama, but the two have definitely set themselves up for an explosive tell-all.

The 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days tell-all kicks off Sunday night on TLC.