’90 Day Fiancé’: What Is Jesse Meester Doing While Darcey Silva Promotes Her New Show?

Remember Jesse Meester? It’s hard to forget the former 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days star because he loves to pop up on the show from time to time even though he isn’t dating any of the cast members. Meester appeared on the first and second seasons of Before the 90 Days with Darcey Silva. After things went south between them, he somehow found a reason to show up on season 3’s reunion. What is Meester up to now that Darcey has completely moved on?

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Who is Jesse Meester?

If you just tuned into season 4 of Before the 90 Days then you probably don’t know much about Meester. He and Silva met on Instagram and started dating. Meester’s obsession with fitness was one of his most prominent personality traits throughout the season.

“A lot of people think that I am all about fitness and stuff but actually I am more into swimming,” he told InTouch. “And a lot of people think that ‘oh Jesse works out six days a week. He’s a gym rat.’ I’m not. I miss out too. I eat pizza too.”

The relationship ended after two seasons of the show and Silva moved on to Tom Brooks.

Did Jesse Meester date another cast member?

On season 3 of Before the 90 Days, Caesar Mack appeared on the show with Ukrainian beauty Maria. The two’s relationship (if you could call it that) didn’t last very long. After the season finished airing, Maria and Meester met up in Barcelona, Spain.

“You guys, I’ve got something special going on,” he said in a video on his Instagram story. “Because I’m here in Barcelona, but I’m not here alone.”

“I’m here with someone really special, someone really beautiful, someone really amazing.”

Later, he tagged Maria in a photo. The two never confirmed the nature of their relationship.

What is Jesse doing now?

Silva’s life seems to be going well now. She has landed her own spinoff with her twin called Darcey & Stacey.

“I’m really super excited about the new show and very grateful to TLC,” Darcey told Entertainment Weekly. “I’ve had a long journey with relationships and now that I’ve fully concluded my Jessie and Tom stories, I am finally excited about what the future holds. I am at a stage in my life where I am happy with my life and I’m staying strong for me and my daughters and my family. And I’m so excited to dive deeper into our family life on the new show, past, present, and future.”


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So what is Meester up to now? Apparently, he’s doing some traveling. He recently posted a picture of himself in Croatia.

“Paddling my way out of quarantine I just realized I should have come here pre-quarantine,” he wrote. “This is the place to be stuck at! 😅⁣ The Adriatic sea is crystal clear and I swim here more than I did in the Maldives! Swimming (and paddleboarding) has become my daily workout now.

“I love strolling down the cobblestone streets, swim, soak in the sun on the beaches and indulge in the delicious local food,” he continued. “After 3 months of not traveling this feels even better!”

So, it looks like Meester isn’t too bothered by his ex’s success.