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The Duggar family might have been keeping a big secret from the general public before 2015. However, the sexual abuse inside their home wasn’t a secret to their social circle. Reportedly, Josh Duggar’s inappropriate behavior was well known to members of their home church. According to recently unsealed court documents, Josh’s behavior and Jim Bob and Michelle Duggar’s handling of the situation led to a rift in the family’s social circle. So, just how many people knew what happened? A lot.

Court documents revealed how quickly the Duggar’s social circle learned about Josh Duggar 

Josh Duggar molested four of his sisters and a family friend in 2003 and 2004. Initially, Jim Bob and Michelle Duggar informed the Holt family of Josh’s actions. Jim and Bobye Holt were close friends to Jim Bob and Michelle. Their daughter, Kaeleigh Holt, was dating Josh at the time. After the Holts informed their daughter of the situation, she ended her courtship with Josh and wrote details of the abuse in a letter. 

Josh Duggar booking photo from April 2021 arrest
Josh Duggar | Washington County Sheriff’s Office via Getty Images

According to court documents, Kaeleigh slipped the letter into a book. In 2006, Kaeleigh lent the book to a family friend who discovered the note and passed it on to others. After that, the Duggar family’s larger social circle was made aware of the incidents. According to Kaeleigh’s testimony, Michelle’s family member, Rachel Hutchins, was also aware of the incidents. Kaeleigh noted that many of the parents in their social circle discussed what happened.

Kaeleigh Holt testified that Michelle and Jim Bob Duggar’s handling of the situation led to a social rift 

The Duggar family and the Holt family had been incredibly close for years. Still, how Jim Bob and Michelle handled Josh Duggar’s behavior led to division inside the families’ home church. According to Kaeleigh’s testimony in the Duggar sister’s lawsuit against the city of Springdale, the families’ social circle was divided.

The Holt family appeared in the Duggar family’s first TLC special but disappeared from the spotlight shortly after. Bobye Holt’s testimony at Josh Duggar’s child pornography trial was the first time the family publicly acknowledged a relationship between Josh and Kaeleigh Holt. 

Kaeleigh has since gone on to marry someone else. Josh Duggar married Anna Duggar in 2008. They have seven children together. TLC canceled 19 Kids and Counting in 2015 after police reports regarding the molestation came to light. According to the Ashley Reality Roundup, Kaeleigh addressed the relationship on her Instagram following Bobye Holt’s testimony.

A family insider blew the whistle on the Duggar family 

Everything that happened led to a serious and significant rift just as the Duggar family landed their TLC specials. The special led to other television appearances. While the family members were regulars on several talk shows, they never appeared on The Oprah Winfrey Show. They were supposed to appear on the show in 2006, though. For years, rumors swirled that Winfrey canceled the appearance after receiving an email about the molestation. 

The Duggar family walks down the hall of the Longworth House Office Building in 2009
The Duggar family | Bill Clark/Roll Call/Getty Images
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As it turns out, Winfrey did cancel the appearance following an email tip. The production company behind the show also contacted the police regarding the information. The tipster, according to court documents, was a Duggar family insider. An unknown person placed an additional tip to a child welfare hotline in Arkansas. The tips led to the police investigation and subsequent report that was released to the public in 2015. 

How to get help: If you or someone you know has been sexually abused, text HOME to the Crisis Text Line at 741741 for free and confidential support.