How Queen Elizabeth II Reacted When Princess Diana Told Her Prince Charles Was Having an Affair With Camilla

After their fairy tale wedding in 1981, the marriage between Prince Charles and Princess Diana didn’t turn out so great. The two separated in 1992 and later admitted to having extramarital affairs. It was Charles’ affair with Camilla Parker Bowles, now the Duchess of Cornwall, that hurt Diana so deeply and the reason she cheated herself.

The princess confronted Camilla but Charles and his mistress continued to see each other every chance they got. When she felt she had nowhere else to turn Diana went to the prince’s mother, Queen Elizabeth II, about her son’s behavior. Read on to find out how the monarch reacted after hearing about her son’s infidelity.

Prince Charles, Princess Diana, and Queen Elizabeth II
Prince Charles, Princess Diana, and Queen Elizabeth II | Fox Photos/Getty Images

Diana claimed Prince Charles’ father told him to cheat on her

The princess claimed that it was actually Charles’ father, Prince Philip, who put the idea in his son’s head that it was okay to have an affair.

“My father-in-law said to my husband ‘if your marriage doesn’t work out, you can always go back to her after five years,’” Diana alleged in her recordings shown in the documentary Diana: In Her Own Words. “Which is exactly — I mean, for real I knew that it had happened after five [years] — I knew something was happening before that but the fifth year I had confirmation.”

The Princess of Wales also said that when she confronted Charles he then acted as if it was perfectly fine for him to have another woman because of his royal status.

“I refuse to be the only Prince of Wales who never had a mistress,” he reportedly told her.

Prince Charles, Princess Diana, Queen Elizabeth II
Prince Charles, Princess Diana, Queen Elizabeth II | Tim Graham Photo Library via Getty Images

How Queen Elizabeth reacted to Charles having an affair

In those recordings, Diana also described what Queen Elizabeth told her when she went to Her Majesty seeking advice on everything.

“So I went to the top lady, sobbing, and I said ‘what do I do. I’m coming to you, what do I do?’ And she said ‘I don’t know what you should do. Charles is hopeless,’” Diana recalled. “And that was it, and that was help.”

The queen was very upset though when her son and Camilla’s affair became public knowledge as she did not condone adultery. In his book, Rebel Prince: The Power and Passion and Defiance of Prince Charles, royal biographer Tom Bower wrote that the monarch was so angered over it that she described Camilla as “wicked.”

According to Bower, after several martinis, Queen Elizabeth told Charles that she would never forgive Camilla and called her that “wicked woman” who she wanted “nothing to do with.” Camilla was also reportedly banned from the palace for some time as the man she was married to and cheated on with Charles was the Queen Mother‘s godson, Andrew Parker Bowles

Queen Elizabeth II, Princess Diana, and Prince Charles
Queen Elizabeth II, Princess Diana, and Prince Charles | Terry Fincher/Princess Diana Archive/Getty Images

Charles’ parents always blamed him for his failed marriage to Diana

Although she didn’t offer Diana the support she sought royal expert Robert Lacey claimed that while many people believe that the queen blamed Diana for how unhappy Charles was and their marriage ultimately unraveling, she did not.

“It would be a great mistake to say she [the queen] blamed Diana for what went wrong,” Lacey said.

In the documentary Princes Of The Palace, he went on to explain why the royal family matriarch placed that on Charles’ shoulders.

“She and her husband, Prince Philip, put more of the blame on Prince Charles,” Lacey said, adding that the reason is because “Prince Charles of course, as we since discovered, was already committed emotionally to another woman.”

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