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By the time Prince Charles and Princess Diana divorced, their marriage was completely over. The pair married in 1981 but were formally separated and openly seeing other people by 1992. They may have never gotten divorced, legally, if not for Queen Elizabeth’s urging.

But on the actual day that the Prince and Princess of Wales dissolved their marriage, they did allow for a rare display of emotion together. One royal source says that this former couple took a moment to cry together on that day in 1996 when their divorce was finalized. Here’s what happened.

Prince Charles and Princess Diana
Prince Charles and Princess Diana | Tim Graham Photo Library via Getty Images

Prince Charles and Princess Diana were doomed from the start

When Charles and Diana got engaged, they barely knew each other after only going out on 12 dates. But even if they had gotten better acquainted, they still probably wouldn’t have lasted too long. That’s because their temperaments weren’t well suited to each other. Plus, Charles was in love with another woman at the time.

And they weren’t happy for very long in their marriage. There were a few brief moments of harmony, but overall, the Princess of Wales was miserable from day one. Charles admitted during a 1994 interview that the marriage had, “irretrievably broke down.”

Still, the pair mourned what could have been when it did end.

Charles and Diana shared a moment of mourning for their failed marriage

Prince Charles and Princess Diana
Prince Charles and Princess Diana | Georges De Keerle/Getty Images

Prince Charles and Princess Diana needed to get divorced. But one royal commentator said the pair had a moment of reflection in that pivotal moment, The Sun reported.

Royal biographer Ingrid Seward said, “On the day of the divorce (Aug. 28, 1996), she and Charles sat down together on the sofa and they both cried.”

She continued: “It was this crazy separation, but by the time the divorce was actually finalized, they were on much better terms.”

Princess Diana didn’t want to get divorced

There is some debate over whether Prince Charles ever loved Diana. He famously said, “Whatever in love means” when asked that exact question during an engagement interview. But unlike her philandering husband, Diana did have deep feelings for Charles and would have fought to make it work.

“Given the choice, she would have stayed and tried to make a happy marriage,” Princess Diana’s personal trainer Jenni Rivett told Yahoo’s The Royal Box. “She loved Charles. She wasn’t the one who wanted to separate or divorce. She was sad about it. She wanted to be a loving wife.”

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Prince Charles and Princess Diana
Prince Charles, Princess of Wales and Princess Diana, Princess of Wales | Anwar Hussein/WireImage)

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Diana tragically died in a car crash one year after that emotional day she finalized her divorce from Prince Charles. But royal fans still wonder if this pair would have eventually become friends if she had lived.

The major link Charles and Diana would always share is their two children, Prince William and Prince Harry, and there’s a good chance they’d fight to become cordial for their sake. But unless Diana also found love and remarried, she’d probably always have been resentful of Charles and Camilla.

We’ll never know how it all would have turned out. But at least the former husband and wife had the chance to share a moment of emotion for their doomed, disastrous marriage.