‘Teen Mom 2’: Kailyn Lowry Opens up About What Was Going Through Her Mind During the Tense Season 4 Reunion With Vee Torres

Teen Mom 2 fans will remember the dramatics of the Season 4 reunion. Things were tense between Kailyn Lowry and Jo Rivera’s then-girlfriend Vee Torres, to put it lightly.

Kailyn Lowry | Gregg DeGuire/WireImage
Kailyn Lowry | Gregg DeGuire/WireImage

In Lowry’s 2014 book, Pride Over Pity, she writes about what was going through her mind during the particularly messy reunion.

Kailyn Lowry felt ‘misunderstood’ during the Season 4 reunion

“The environment was claustrophobic and stuffy. I was frustrated because I felt pressured to meet Jo’s girlfriend on stage. I felt like I was being pushed into a corner and my words and feelings were misunderstood,” she wrote.

She says, going into the evening, she “did not want a confrontation.” She didn’t want any interaction with Torres at all, actually.

“Everyone is entitled to his or her own feelings so why couldn’t I just be left alone? I was portrayed as a jealous, psycho ex. I felt I had been manipulated and it annoyed me to the point where I had to get up to leave the set for breathing room. Filming reunion shows is stressful and emotional enough. This was too much for me. I didn’t need anyone to play devil’s advocate. I already felt enough pressure from this nonexistent relationship I had with Jo’s girlfriend,” she wrote.

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Lowry writes that her feelings were unfairly judged and that there wasn’t “enough consideration of the source of those emotions.”

“From the outside it appeared I was just jealous of her for no reason. The show didn’t portray her smoking weed or drinking, the way I thought it appeared online,” Lowry continued. “Although Jo denied that she did, that was the reason I held animosity toward her. I just want people to understand that these perceptions of mine were the real reason I had for not liking her or wanting her in Isaac’s life.”

Why Kailyn Lowry initially didn’t like Vee Torres

When Lowry first started getting a sense of Torres, she was worried she’d be a bad influence on Isaac.

“She posted pictures online of herself wearing a gas mask and smoking out of what looked like a bong. It seemed this was beyond an anxiety reducing self-medicating pastime. I was afraid it was a bad habit my son could potentially pick up one day. There was no way I wanted Isaac to be around weed or alcohol. I understand the full, detrimental repercussions. All I asked of Jo was that he keep Isaac away from it,” wrote Lowry.

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At the time, Lowry felt pretty passionately about her feelings towards Torres. It’s why the Season 4 reunion was so charged for her.

Today, Lowry and Torres are friends. In fact, it seems Lowry’s on better terms with Torres than she is with Rivera these days.

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