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Once upon a time, two princesses who lived in the same palace were at war with each other. Even today, years after their deaths, many royal fans are still talking about the feud between Princess Diana and Queen Elizabeth II‘s sister, Princess Margaret.

The Countess of Snowdon cut the Princess of Wales out of her life after Diana’s explosive, tell-all interview. But was Margaret jealous of her nephew’s wife even before that because Diana took away something Margaret loved?

(L): Princess Diana, (R): Princess Margaret
(L): Princess Diana | Jayne Fincher/Getty Images, (R): Princess Margaret | Tim Graham Photo Library via Getty Images

Princess Diana and Princess Margaret were close at one time

Princess Margaret and Princess Diana weren’t always enemies. The ladies were once very close. It was actually Margaret who guided Diana during royal engagements and let her know who to speak to and who to shake hands with.

The Princess of Wales’ biographer Andrew Morton noted that in her secretly recorded tapes Diana once spoke of her affection for Margaret.

“I’ve always adored Margo, as I call her,” the princess said in the audio recordings. “I love her to bits and she’s been wonderful to me from day one.”

Diana took this away from Margaret

Elizabeth Taylor, Richard Burton, and Princess Margaret
Elizabeth Taylor, Richard Burton, and Princess Margaret | Keystone-France/Gamma-Keystone via Getty Images

While Diana said she viewed Margaret as “wonderful,” many royal experts believe the countess became jealous of Diana at some point. For so long, the queen’s younger sibling had been the beautiful princess who the press adored and A-list celebrities wanted to be around. That is until Diana, another beautiful and much younger princess, started rubbing elbows with the rich and famous as well and took the spotlight away from Margaret.

Former BBC royal correspondent Jenny Bond opined that Margaret had been jealous of Diana for years.

“I think when Diana came on the scene with the focus of all the press attention around the U.K., [Margaret] was plain jealous,” Bond said. “She had been the belle of the ball, she had been the one people wanted to follow. So I think she was jealous.”

In the documentary The Royal Family at War, the Princess of Wales’ former butler Paul Burrell agreed and added that “Princess Margaret wasn’t a fan. She was a film star and the Diana of her day and Diana came along and usurped her.”

The women took their hate to the grave

 Princess Margaret and Princess Diana
Princess Margaret and Princess Diana | Princess Diana Archive/Getty Images

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Things between the two princesses really broke down though after Diana’s Panorama interview.

According to Morton, it escalated into a “cold war” between the women who were stilll neighbors at Kensington Palace.

“Princess Margaret would turn over any magazine that had Diana on the cover,” he said. “She told her staff not to talk to anybody from Diana’s apartments. It was a cold war. Ironically, whenever Diana had a boyfriend, often in the trunk or the boot of her car, Margaret would be there behind the curtains watching.”

Burrell also recalled that happening when men would visit Diana’s residence.

“I had to bring them into clock court, which was immediately in front of Princess Margaret’s home and all the time the curtains would [be] twitching,” Burrell remembered. “Margaret would be watching, keeping an eye on what Diana was doing and Diana would wave: ‘Hi Margot, how are you?'”