‘The Mary Tyler Moore Show’: Why Valerie Harper Almost Didn’t Get the Part of Rhoda
Mary Tyler Moore launched her own sitcom in 1970. The series ran for seven seasons and garnered multiple Emmy awards during its run. Moore recruited several memorable actors for The Mary Tyler Moore Show, including Ed Asner (Lou Grant), Ted Knight (Ted Baxter), Gavin MacLeod (Murray Slaughter), Betty White (Sue Ann Nivens), and Cloris Leachman (Phyllis Lindstrom).
Valerie Harper rose to fame playing Maryās BFF Rhoda Morgenstern. Harperās character was written as a more relatable woman in comparison to Mooreās idealistic Mary Richards. Yet producers hesitated on giving Harper the role for an unusual reason.

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In her 1995 memoir, After All, Moore described her delight over the ensemble of co-stars she was able to bring on board for The Mary Tyler Moore Show. Still, one character was proving difficult to cast.Ā
āWe were so pleased with our merry band of players,ā Moore wrote. āBut time was edging toward the June start date and we still hadnāt found Rhoda. We were looking for someone to make the kind of impact the others had for the roles of Lou, Ted, Murray, and Phyllis.ā
While Harper wasnāt flexing her sitcom muscles at the time, CBS exec Ethel Winant was able to detect her comedic talent.
āValerie Harper was portraying several fairy-tale characters, including a duck, in a stage show called Story Theater,ā Moore recalled. āSomehow Ethel Winant could see the potential through those feathers and collared us.ā
Valerie Harper didnāt technically fit the description of Rhoda Morgenstern
With a specific persona developed for Rhoda Morgenstern, Harper proved to be a bit outside of the description producers had created.
āValerie came in and read for the part and [show creators James L. Brooks and Allan Burns] loved her immediately,ā Moore explained. āThe only problem was that Rhoda was written to be a self-made loser ā not good with hair and makeup, overweight, and self-deprecating. Valerie, to Jim and Allanās anguish, was the perfect actress except for one thing: she was beautiful.ā
Though Harper didnāt have the appearance producers envisioned for Rhoda, her acting skills were enough to bring her back to try a scene with Moore.
āThey asked her to come back the next day to read with me, and to try to frump herself up a bit beforehand,ā Moore wrote. āNo matter how hard she tried, she couldnāt hide her beauty.ā
Rhoda Morgenstern was attractive but ādidnāt think she wasā
Harper nailed her scenes with Moore, where Brooks and Burns decided to put a different spin on Rhoda in order to give Harper the part.
āOnce again, the boys had to rethink a character, and they did,ā Moore shared. āSo what if she was attractive ā the important thing was that, like so many women, Rhoda didnāt think she was. As such, that great self-deprecating aspect of her humor was preserved no matter what she looked like.ā
The character of Rhoda Morgenstern was such a hit that Harper left The Mary Tyler Moore Show toward the end of season 4 to star in her own spinoff, Rhoda. Moore and Harperās friendship transcended their on-camera collaborations and lasted for decades.
āIāll never forget her reading of the line, āThis is going to be my apartment,'ā Moore remarked. āNo one else had given that sentence such determination and hostility, while still getting a laugh. We clicked immediately, and I knew Iād made a friend.ā