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Prince Charles and Princess Diana were married in 1981. Less than a year after saying “I do,” they welcomed their eldest son, Prince William, followed by their second son, Prince Harry, in 1984. But the Prince and Princess of Wales’ marriage was marred by affairs and scandals causing them to separate in 1992 and eventually divorce four years later.

Perhaps the worst-kept royal secret ever was King Charles’ relationship with Camilla Parker Bowles. Even though she was the same woman Diana blamed for breaking up her marriage, both William and Harry had to have meetings with her since she was going to be in their father’s life. But when Camilla and William met, it was Camilla who came out of that all flustered and exclaiming that she needed alcohol.

Prince William and Camilla Parker Bowles riding in a carriage during Trooping The Colour
Prince William and Camilla Parker Bowles riding in a carriage during Trooping The Colour | Samir Hussein/Getty Images

Prince William did not agree to meet Camilla until a year after Princess Diana died

After Princess Diana’s death, Camilla became public enemy No. 1 as most people in Britain did not want to see or hear anything about her, and that included Prince William.

He refused to meet his father’s girlfriend for some time following his mother’s death in 1997. Charles reportedly respected his son’s decision and did not try to push anything.

On June 12, 1998, a then 16-year-old William unexpectedly stopped by St. James’s Palace where his father lived at the time, not knowing Camilla was there. It was only then that they met and spoke to each other for the very first time.

Their first meeting was so awkward it caused Camilla to say she needed a drink

Camilla Parker Bowles having a drink as she tours Ancre Hill vineyard
Camilla Parker Bowles having a drink as she tours Ancre Hill vineyard | Anwar Hussein/WireImage

A spokesperson for Prince Charles later confirmed the meeting took place saying: “Yes, Prince William and Mrs. Parker Bowles have met. Meetings between the children and Mrs. Parker Bowles are a private family matter which we are not prepared to discuss and we wish, for their sakes, the media will now leave this very personal matter alone.”

While the details of what happened during their 30-minute closed-door conversation are not known, there was apparently some tension or awkwardness because as the Irish Times reported, the first words out of Camilla’s month afterward were: “I really need a gin and tonic.”

Some described William and Camilla’s relationship as ‘distant’ over the years

Prince William and Camilla Parker Bowles at the 'No Time To Die' world premiere
Prince William and Camilla Parker Bowles at the ‘No Time To Die’ world premiere | Karwai Tang/WireImage

A few weeks later, Camilla met William’s younger brother. The details of that meeting were never disclosed either. However, years later, Prince Harry went out of his way to try and help Camilla out in the court of public opinion telling Harry: Conversations with the Prince biographer Angela Levin: “To be honest, she’s always been very close to me and William. She’s not a wicked stepmother. Look at the position she’s coming into. Don’t feel sorry for me and William; feel sorry for her. She’s a wonderful woman and she’s made our father very, very happy which is the most important thing. William and I love her to bits.”

Charles and Camilla tied the knot on April 9, 2005. And while William has always put on a united front with Camilla in public, some believe there has been tension behind the scenes on both sides. According to royal author Christopher Wilson, things between both Charles’ sons and his second wife were often a bit icy despite how they acted toward each other when cameras were rolling.

“Though to all outward appearances she had the support and friendship of Prince William … privately there is a distance,” Wilson wrote in the Daily Mail.