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Will Smith and Jada Pinkett Smith are known for their unconventional parenting style. Although Trey, Jaden, and Willow are free to do what they want, that doesn’t mean that their parents don’t know what’s going on. Jada Pinkett Smith revealed that she knew the exact night that both of her sons lost their virginity.

Will Smith and Jada Pinkett Smith talk openly to their children about sex

Jada Pinkett Smith hosts a Red Table Talk web Television series with her daughter, Willow Smith, and her mother, Adrienne “Gammy” Banfield-Norris. Throughout the talk show, the three women give their perspectives on a wide variety of topics. In season one, they hosted an episode titled, “Let’s Talk About Sex.” 

Trey Smith, Jaden Smith, Jada Pinkett Smith, and Will Smith
Trey Smith, Jaden Smith, Jada Pinkett Smith, and Will Smith | Rodin Eckenroth/WireImage

Willow Smith brought her best friend, Telana Lynum, to the table to discuss sex and experiences. 

“I did not want Willow to have shame of any kind,” Jada Pinkett explained about why she wanted to talk to her daughter about sex. “She needs to be at that table to hear it all.”

They all explained how “taboo” sex seems, and why it shouldn’t be that way. 

“Whenever I talk to dad about [sex] it’s always an intellectual debate,” Willow explained about her father, Will Smith. “It’s very serious, but it’s not emotional.”

They agreed that it’s easier to talk to the same-sex parent about sex. The women also pointed out that society needs to inform women about the fun aspects of sex, not warn them about the harms.

Jada Pinkett Smith knew when sons, Jaden and Trey, had sex for the first time

During the same Red Table Talk episode, Jada Pinkett Smith reveals that she had a mom’s “intuition” about both of their sons’ first sexual encounters.

“I knew when they both lost their virginity,” she explains. “I knew the night Jaden lost his virginity. 

Jaden Smith, Will Smith, and Trey Smith
Jaden Smith, Will Smith, and Trey Smith | Leon Bennett/WireImage

I had a moment with Trey in the kitchen where I looked at him, and I was like, ‘You’ve had sex.’ He ran into the bathroom. He’s like ‘fine, yes, I’ve had sex.'”

When Trey revealed that his mother was correct, Jada Pinkett Smith told him that he didn’t have to be embarrassed. However, he was mortified that his mother knew.

“It was like their innocence was gone,” she continued. “I can always tell with some of your friends, too,” she tells Willow. “You can just see the maturity.”

Who is Jaden Smith currently dating?

Jada Pinkett Smith’s son, Jaden, is famous for his rap and pop songs and several films. He has dated numerous celebrities, including actor Odessa Adlon. He also was in a relationship with Sarah Snyder for two years. 

Jaden Smith and Jada Pinkett Smith
Jaden Smith and Jada Pinkett Smith | Kevin Winter/Getty Images

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Jaden was recently spotted hanging out with Sofia Richie for a beach day on Sept. 5, according to E! News

“They spent the afternoon playing on the beach together with friends,” an unnamed source told the outlet. “But Sofia and Jaden only had eyes for each other. They swam in the water together and wrapped their arms around each other. They held hands as they went in and out of the water, and then they pulled each other in for a hug.”

Fans believe Jaden and Richie are an item, although no one knows for sure.