Beyoncé Gave This Simple Dating Advice After Tying the Knot With Jay-Z
Beyoncé and Jay-Z’s relationship began in the late ’90s as a quiet friendship that blossomed into one of music’s most powerful partnerships. They went public in the early 2000s with hits like “’03 Bonnie & Clyde” and “Crazy in Love,” blending their personal and professional lives with seamless chemistry. After marrying in 2008, the couple weathered both triumphs and public challenges, including infidelity revelations addressed in their music, emerging stronger and more united. Now, we’re looking back at what Beyoncé said about her feelings toward being Jay-Z’s wife as opposed to his girlfriend — and the advice she gave.
Beyoncé once candidly advised unmarried women after tying the knot with Jay-Z
Beyoncé and Jay-Z tied the knot in a secret ceremony on April 4, 2008, at his Tribeca penthouse, keeping the details private and intimate, much like their relationship at the time. With only close family and friends in attendance, the wedding was understated yet meaningful. In the early years of their marriage, the couple maintained a low public profile, rarely discussing their relationship in interviews. Instead, they communicated their journey through music, dropping hints in lyrics and performances that blended romance with ambition.
Beyoncé once spoke candidly to Oprah Winfrey about becoming Jay-Z’s wife. Winfrey asked the R&B queen how it felt to go from girlfriend to wife and if she enjoyed the transition, noting that while she chose not to tie the knot, she enjoys it when men refer to their wives in conversation.
“It feels great,” Beyoncé verified between laughs, according to a TikTok posted to YouTube. “But, I can say, make sure you have your own life before you’re someone else’s wife.” The crowd erupted with applause, and Winfrey shook Beyoncé’s hand on that note.
Ester Dean shared the smart dating advice Beyoncé gave her
Ester Dean’s relationship with Beyoncé spans well over a decade. Dean co-wrote Beyoncé’s song “Start Over” from the album 4 and also contributed to the hit track “Countdown,” playing a key role in shaping Beyoncé’s signature sound. Beyond their collaborative work, Dean has publicly shared a deep admiration for Beyoncé’s artistry and leadership. She refers to Beyoncé as a “warrior spirit” and sought her advice and wisdom in the entertainment industry.
In 2015, Dean told VH1 that the Destiny’s Child singer had advice for her when it came to dating.
“She told me to go on Match.com,” Dean admitted. “[She said] if you’ve been single for too long, get into the habit of speaking to the opposite sex. After so long, speaking to a man could be uncomfortable in a personal way. When speaking to people who might be interested in you, you tend to clam up if you haven’t practiced.”
The ‘Cowboy Carter Tour’ proved that Jay-Z and his famous wife are still crazy in love
Despite alleged sources claiming Beyoncé and Jay-Z went through a rough patch in 2025, the last show on the “Cowboy Carter Tour” proved otherwise. The final U.S. appearance took place at Mercedes‑Benz Stadium in Atlanta during the third night of four. Midway through her set, Beyoncé paused to announce, “Give it up for my man, Jay‑Z,” prompting an eruption as he appeared in a sleek leather look to perform “Crazy in Love.” After trading verses and sharing a kiss onstage, Jay‑Z stayed to deliver his classic “Public Service Announcement” — a rare live moment for fans and a fitting close to their joint performances on this tour.
These surprise appearances weren’t just musical highlights. They encapsulated an era. With Jay‑Z absent from touring since 2018, these onstage collaborations reminded fans of their lasting synergy and mutual admiration.
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