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King Charles III and Queen Camilla’s (formerly known as Camilla Parker Bowles) marriage is the second for both of them. But they have been married to each other longer than they were to their first spouses leaving some to wonder what the secret is to their marriage.

Well, that just might be linked to their unusual bedroom arrangement.

Camilla Parker Bowles (now-Queen Camilla) and King Charles III look at each other as they reopen the newly-renovated Edwardian community hall in Wales
Camilla Parker Bowles (now-Queen Camilla) and King Charles III look at each other as they reopen the newly-renovated Edwardian community hall in Wales | Chris Jackson/Getty Images

King Charles and Queen Camilla don’t sleep together

King Charles and Queen Camilla do not sleep together in the same bed or in the same room for that matter.

“[Charles] has a room with a double bed, decorated to his own taste, then Camilla has her own room with a double bed, decorated just the way she likes it,” a friend of the king and queen told the Daily Mail.

While that seems like an odd arrangement for some, it’s not uncommon with royal couples.

“In England, the upper class always have had separate bedrooms. You don’t want to be bothered with snoring or someone flinging a leg around,” explained Queen Elizabeth II’s cousin Lady Pamela Hicks.

King Charles III and Camilla Parker Bowles (now-Queen Camilla) visit local shops and businesses during a walk through a village in Ballater, Scotland
King Charles III and Camilla Parker Bowles (now-Queen Camilla) visit local shops and businesses during a walk through a village in Ballater, Scotland | Chris Jackson/Getty Images

As The Mirror noted, another reason for the arrangement may have to do with the king’s health as the monarch has suffered from back pain for years and sleeping alone in a bed makes things easier for him during the night.

Moreover, royal expert Joshua Rom suggested that separate bedrooms may also have to do with the fact that the king and queen have such hectic schedules and are around so many people all the time that they prefer to relax separately. Some reports even claim that the arrangement is the “secret” to the pair’s “long-lasting marriage.”

They aren’t the only royals who sleep in separate beds

But they aren’t the only royals to have adopted such a sleeping arrangement.

Kate Middleton and Prince William wave from their aircraft during the departure ceremony at Lynden Pindling International Airport in Nassau, Bahamas
Kate Middleton and Prince William wave from their aircraft during the departure ceremony at Lynden Pindling International Airport in Nassau, Bahamas | Toby Melville – Pool/Getty Images

It’s been reported that Prince William and the Princess of Wales (formerly known as Kate Middleton) do not sleep in the same bed at their Kensington Palace residence. Some believe that because William’s wife suffers from hay fever and sleeping in her own bed soothes her allergies.

Queen Elizabeth and Prince Philip did not sleep in the same bed either. As depicted in The Crown, their Buckingham Palace residence had two large sleeping quarters separated by a central room with double doors and when those doors were open, the couple could see each other across the divide.

The late queen and her husband were married for 70 years. So perhaps that is the secret to a long marriage which is good news for the other royal couples who sleep separately.